wellisntthisfun's picture

Now you wanna be my Facebook friend??

After putting up with my SD's BO for over 30 years filled with her bad mouthing my DH, my kids and me to anyone who would hear her. After making my life miserable with phone calls of screaming rants directed at us, leaving notes on my door when I got home from work telling me where to pick up the little jewel even though she knew her X my BF at the time was working out of town, because she had plans with the boyfriend and I could just deal with it. The list could go on forever. NOW SHE WANTS TO BE MY FACEBOOK FRIEND!!!! Are you FREAKING KIDDING ME!!! Jawdropping!

hypovic's picture

Decline. She just wants

Decline.

She just wants another avenue to have at you or another way to scope you out.

"Sometimes good command decisions get compromised by bad emotional responses." - Ben Linus, Lost

bi's picture

exactly. they use fb to try

exactly. they use fb to try to find ways to prove how bad you are. sd20 has been blocked from my page twice. this last time was IT. i will never allow her back on again. it was used to spy on me (which sounds stupid since i had nothing to hide, but some people try to find cryptic meanings in ordinary posts), it was used to see what our family is up to and for her to use that as a way to whine and cry about being left out (20 years old, live in bf, baby on the way, but she should be involved in our events) and she used it to send me messages saying things she does not have the balls to say to my face. if she wants to say something to me now, she has no choice but to say it to my face, there are no other options! interestingly, while she does like to sometimes come to where i work (public store) and stare at me and pace past me 110 times, she has had not a single word to actually say to me. Evil funny how your balls are magically bigger on fb than they are in person.

"I don't hold grudges. I remember facts."

RedWingsFan's picture

Decline! LOL

Decline! LOL

"Behind every bitch is a woman who got tired of being broken"

"Wine is to women like duct tape is to men - it fixes everything"

Mrs.Taylor's picture

Decline and BLOCK. She's only

Decline and BLOCK. She's only trying to gain access to another way of harrassing you and spying on you. What a nut.

herewegoagain's picture

lol amazing.

lol amazing.

dtzyblnd's picture

Blah. I feel ya girl. Just

Blah. I feel ya girl. Just decline it, nothing good comes out of toxic.

******
My IPOD says you are full of bullshit!

wowthisishard's picture

Oh yeah, after all she didn't

Oh yeah, after all she didn't do anything wrong. If this happened to me and I blocked them they would say it's more evideance I don't want them around. lol Well no kidding!!

What others say and do are a reflection of them, not of you.

Annoyed1's picture

I accepted my facebook invite

I accepted my facebook invite from BM... but I blocked her from seeing ANYTHING on my wall, updates, friends, etc. I think that strangers can see more info about me than BM Evil

If only closed minds came with closed mouths.

kristinmarie722's picture

Ugh decline... seriously

Ugh decline... seriously FB.... people's way to be passive aggressive. You don't like me IRL yet you want to be my FB friend?