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Ss has scratches that he says his SD did....

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Help. We don't know where to start. My 4 yo stepson has come for his 2 weekly visit and he has scratches on his face.
We asked how he did them and he said his BM husband did it. We don't want to send him back but we don't know where we stand? Should we contact social services? We cannot talk to his BM as she.... Well she isn't exactly sane.
We just don't know what to do. Please help.

Oh yeah. Hi I'm Sammi!!

YoNoHeSido's picture

Thanks for the reply. We are going through a very nasty custody battle for him with her accusing my husband of sexual abuse of SS
And physical abuse of herself. This has all been proven to be lies by social services and she has constantly lied to SS and the court but with her being the BM it seems to be brushed under the carpet.
SS told my eldest son that his SF had grabbed his face and scratched him, the scratches do look like that happened. He also told him that scars on his face (that BM said was caused by a child at school) was caused by SF because he was angry.
My husband wants to go and kill him and to be honest so do I.

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I used to work for social services and I was trained to look for things like that. He has 1 scratch on his left cheek (thumb?) and 3 on this right cheek as if he was held.
He has told us so many things about his SF that now we feel it's time to take it further. It may sound bad but we feel if we TRY to talk to BM about it then she will have time to find an excuse. We don't talk to her and only converse via text or email as then we have proof of the total rubbish she says!
My SS is a lovely boy but they have ruined him.