Step Talk

I too used to be the runner for EVERYTHING and plans always changed at last minute with BM while I was on my way there or got there!

I got fed up with it and no longer do it. Hubby had an issue with it for the longest time, now I say, either you do it, or you be here to accommodate the changes or the answer is NO....I too am entitled to making plans and not having to disrupt MY schedule because of HER changes.

You will have to work on hubby with this one I am afraid...and stand up for yourself, you are entitled to a life too.

Corie

thats a wicked way to treat some one no body want to put up sith some one elses kids poo talk about nasty sounds like hes taken you for a ride !

life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you )

Maybe you'll be out when BM comes to drop SS off. Then she'll realize how you felt.

Einstein's definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."

All along Bm has told ss that he was going to be coming here during her vacation time with him because she couldn't get off of work. I keep saying that she hasn't made that out with me yet so as far as I know, he's not coming here.

So now ss said he straight out asked Bm last night if he was going to have to go to a babysitter and she said YES he would. He asked why he couldn't go to his dad's house and Bm said because she doesn't want him at his dad's house on her vacation time. Ss told her that he wouldn't be seeing her anyway while he's at the babysitter. Then Bm told him that she wishes she was friends with OUR neighbors(who we are freinds with and ss's best friend is their son) so Bm could drop ss off at OUR neighbors house on her vacation time!! Then she could USE our neighbors as her beck and call babysitters!!

How crazy it that???

Dawn

She would rather ask relative strangers to watch SS than coordinate respectfully with you? she is crazy!

"In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer." -Albert Camus

That is so unecessary of BM!!! SS will eventually get aggravated with that whole thing.

I had a talk with SS(15) today about him going to see his mother next summer since she isn't taking him this summer. He announced to me he doesn't care what she says he doesn't want to go ever again. By then he will be 16. He will have his license by then and a job. I am giving him my old car once I buy myself a new car. It is a good fixer upper. Once these kids get old enough to think for themselves they see they unreasonable BS that BM's pull. He doesn't even want to talk to her. He is a daddy's boy and always will be.

Dawn eventually BM will lose control.

"GO BACK TO YOUR BRIDGE YOU EVIL TROLL. YOU HAVE NO POWERS HERE"

BM's??? Why is it exactly that she can't take care of her own kid? How rude and disgusting!

What? Biodad doesn't sound sympathetic enough. What in the world does he mean, drop SS off when SS's ready? That is, if this kind of lack of consideration and responsibility wasn't the norm, and if you didn't have anything you needed to do, maybe that would be ok . . . once. But why, exactly, should you waste your time running back and forth this morning b/c BM is an inconsiderate fool, and then sit around all day waiting? What are you, a nanny service? Darn right dad should pick him up after work. Sheesh. How irritating.