freedomSM's picture

BM's hate this site ;)

I know they troll here. 161 guests online.

I just hope some of them are good biomoms and not the evil crazy ones that PAS their kids against the SM and the biodad...doubt it though.

Isignedupforthis's picture

I am worried DH will find

I am worried DH will find this site!

Step-parenting WOULD be the worst job in the world -- if one actually were paid for it.

freedomSM's picture

Why.

Why.

Isignedupforthis's picture

I put things a bit more

I put things a bit more gently to him than I do on this site -- this is a good place to let it all out.

Step-parenting WOULD be the worst job in the world -- if one actually were paid for it.

hippiegirl's picture

If my DH finds this site, the

If my DH finds this site, the fight will be on! I don't say things to his face (about his kid) that I say to you guys on here. I care about his feelings too much.

SanAntonioSoccerMom's picture

I don't care if BMs lurk

I don't care if BMs lurk here. I am a BM and I don't hate this site.

I did find this site under some strange circumstances though.

Keep calm and carry on...

justanothergurlNJ's picture

I can Tell you this if my BM

I can Tell you this if my BM found this sight she would hate it lol. The best part is if she figured out which one of these SMoms is me there isn't a thing she can do because she has no program it is me. Love to see her thru thou.

The custodial parent is the parent who has physical custody of his or her child/ren for the majority of the time. As such, the custodial parent carries most of the responsibility for raising the child, even though the non-custodial parent may be involved.

dtzyblnd's picture

I've been trying to get DH to

I've been trying to get DH to read things on this site. I have no hidden agenda with him, nothing I say hasn't been said before. I do print out some things, he always has an excuse
not to 'read' anything I give him about step families. A book, a note from this site, other sites, nothing....

As for the BM, I wish the bitch would read what I feel about her. Because it's way better to see my words on a computer screen than to be faced with ME in person. I hope we never meet or talk. It won't be pretty. I might just hit her and not be able to help myself. Disgusting human being.

That woman has spent an entire adulthood fucking over people and her children. Deadbeat crack whore, as I called her to her own mother. I don't care either. I have zero respect for any parent that willingly and consciously chooses their own personal lives over their responsibilities to their children. Some women should not be given uteruses by God when they were born, she is one of them.

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As for troll BMs. Read it a weep ladies. If your lives are perfect and your children are angels, bless you! Because the only perfect mother was Mary and the only perfect child was Jesus, and I'm sure if we bent Mary's ears, we'd hear an earful of what Jesus did as a child. LOL.

They are probably just jealous because we are saying and doing things they only wish they could. We aren't bound by keeping up with the Joneses and putting on the perfect family acts.

We got past that when we were thrown into these ugly stereotypical roles by society. Eye-wink

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My IPOD says you are full of bullshit!

SanAntonioSoccerMom's picture

I know what my husband's ex

I know what my husband's ex would say: "I am a NCP mom because my ex stole my kids from me. Not because of the meth I smoked or the coke up my nose. It is all his fault they hate me. Not because I was an absentee Mom, and lied to my kids constantly and went without seeing them for 7 years. That is all his fault. His new wife brainwashed my kids. How dare she pick up my slack and raise well rounded educated children when I could not?"

Keep calm and carry on...

Carah's picture

Holy crap are all bm's the

Holy crap are all bm's the same hahAhaha this sounds like the bm to a tee unbelievable if they would get their crap together and step up so sm's didn't have to maybe there would be no need for this site hahahaha

herewegoagain's picture

DH used to get pissed when I

DH used to get pissed when I came on this site...eventually I let him know I would NOT stop, I could care less if he read my blogs. I also told him that he's lucky this site is around, because otherwise, I would have nobody to vent to EXCEPT him...He has a few times said "you shouldn't be there anymore, I think it stresses you out..." But I always go back to "you don't tell me who I can talk to...and if this is what I need to make it through this nightmare that my life has been thanks to you, your crazy family, your kid and crazy witch, then so be it. I wouldn't have to be here if it weren't for the baggage you have." That usually shuts him right up.