DH said he absolutely WILL NEVER ask SD18 to give back her key to our house. "I always want her to have a key to the house where I live, so that she knows she always has a home to come home to.."
Doesn't your intuition ever tell you that it's a BAD idea?? I cringe at the very thought of SD18 returning to my home, especially since she made it clear she was "never coming back to this f**king house! EVERRR!" I asked DH to get the key back and he flat out refused. I asked him to do it simply because it is important to me to have the key back. "I WILL NOT DO IT," was his response.
I thought about changing the locks, but he'd simply make her a new key.
I am waiting to come home to a destroyed house. Just yesterday, I had been out with BD8 for a couple of hours. I just had this sick feeling that SD had been in my house. Probably hadn't been and I didn't see any sign of her presence, but still...I don't want to have to worry that she will be here. EVER.