Step Talk

Its your DH fault for getting a person who dropped out of school, only able to get a minimum wage job, pregnant. Sometimes I wish guys could look into the future, maybe their ____ won't do all the talking....

and buying into her manipulation when he was so down from his dovorce and what his ex wife did to him...and it is her falut for being a waste of life, having a child on those terms and then using that child to earn a paycheck and make his life miserable...all bc he trusted her and she took advantage when he was down and out.

We can all honestly say that about all our fail relationships. I personally look back and think WTF was I thinking???

I have asked DH why he had so many children at such a late age in life! BM was a baby factory (6 kids including my skids). She abandoned all of the children to the BF's.

I personally take responsibility about being stupid and naive enough to marry a man with children and so much baggage. I should have known better. My friends tried to warn me but I was soooo in LOOOOVE

"GO BACK TO YOUR BRIDGE YOU EVIL TROLL. YOU HAVE NO POWERS HERE"

trust me, my FH suffers for his stupidity and his mistakes more than anyone...the thing that really gets me is the whole support thing, the way its done here. if he would take a lower paying job, that wouldnt relieve him of his high CS obligation, BUT its okay for her to drop out of college and keep a minimum wage job??? and i just think the total support obligation is too high...i dont think it costs $900 a month to raise one kid, NOT INCLUDING daycare.

i want more children with my H so far we have one but the way things are going with CS i don't know if we can afford to have another one..

we want a baby after we get married and i dont see how we can realistically...and hes always wanted the family that we can have together--w 2 people who love each other and want to raise a child together. its just really hard. i understand alot of states dont reduce cs if u have more kids bc u cant have more kids and neglect ur obligation to ur first but sometimes situations arent like that and it just SUCKS! i completely understand how u feel dragonfly...its a sad place to be.

here in texas we just found out that my baby is worth 2% ... im not kidding my H let CS know that he has another child and that the payment is tooo high and wanted to know how much they would lower the CS and they said 2%... that pissed me off

Lovers do not finally meet somewhere, they were with each other all along.

what our husbands pay out in c.s My dh currently pays $1100.00 a month for one child. I dont recieve a third of that from my ex for my bs. At dh and bm's recent meditation for modifications, bm got up and walked out because she would not agree to a lower amount of c.s for ss. Bm's own words to the attorneys and mediator were that the lowered amount would mean SHE would have to lower her standard of living!!!! Uhmmm hello!!!!!In the meantime we live paycheck to paycheck. Trial date to be scheduled soon for us, praying the judge will lower to the amount we were seeking at mediation,our attorney says it was an extremely fair offer, but bm obviously does not agree.