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Both BMs have moved out of state.... are we free now?

PeanutandSons's picture

We just found out that bm1 has moved out of the state. Bm2 left the state three years ago. Are we free to move where ever we want now? Or do we still have to ask permission to leave the state?

There's no custody agreement with bm2. She just signed a noterized letter giving Dh custody and we used that to file for child support (not the she ever pays it). Bm1 had her kids pulled by dcf and they awarded full custody to Dh. He doesn't think there's anything specific in their paperwork about moving, but he doesn't really know.

Weve been wanting to move back up north for a while now, but aren't quite ready to make the jump. Probably within the next year or maybe two. Does their leaving the state first relieve us of any obligation to get their permission to leave too?