I have noticed every since our child has came into this world that the sd and ex have been A LOT more needier and seem to talk and ask more out of my husband.
Wondering if you noticed any changed in your husband kids and ex wife when the baby came?
My 15 yr old sd will not leave her fathers side except to go to bathroom and bed when he is at our house. It is so annoying. Its like she is afraid he is going to pick the baby up or something.
The ex sends text messages and is a lot more talkative these days to my husband. But, its not about the sd. It is really getting old. Its things like " I wish you lived closer" or can you come get sd to gymnastics. (and we live freaking an hour away) there is other stuff too, but she is a lot more needier than before.
at that age I woulda said
at that age I woulda said that to them .. brats have this need to know everything thats not their business so you give it to them!
Don't go there darlin'
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My DS is 10 months and my SD
My DS is 10 months and my SD is 12. She will not leave my DH's side. I think it's more about her feeling threatened by me (I think?). She always has to be closer to him than I am. And that goes for my DS too, although my DS won't let me out of his sight, so that doesn't always work for her.
They might come up with that
They might come up with that idea all on their own too, our BM tells them nothing yet they feel threatened.
My YSD was extremely jealous
My YSD was extremely jealous when OSD had a baby. It was ridiculous. I can only imagine how she would act should we have a baby, oh my.
My DD on the other hand has 3 younger siblings and NEVER was jealous, only happy. In fact i was happy too because I cant have kids anymore and luckily thanks to my ex and his wife LOL now DD has siblings, I never wanted her to be the only child.
The shit REALLY hit the fan
The shit REALLY hit the fan when BM found out DH and I were going to have a baby. ALL the real crap started at that moment in time. The YSD(then
had a harder time with it than OSD(then 10) but that could also be because the BM decided to use this time to tell YSD that she was not DH's bio-daughter, to stir up more trouble. BM's jealousy was off the charts- still is, and she's on Husband #4 now...
sd was 15 when bs4 was born.
sd was 15 when bs4 was born. i know she loves him, but yeah, i think she was jealous, too. she's always been jealous of my place in fdh's life. apparently she thinks he can't have a gf and still be her dad.
when bs was born, i got to hear all these fictional stories of when "dad used to do X with me when i was little". stuff that i know never happened. whatever. i guess she needed to tell herself that to feel better. fdh is way closer to bs than he ever has been with sd, and i'm sure she knows it.
too f'g bad. it's not my fault her parents split up when she was 3 months old. fdh and bs have been together since day 1, of course he's closer to him! i think she's also jealous of the relationship bd and bs have together. again, they live together, so obviously he's going to know bd better and be closer to her than he is with sd.
i suspect all of this is a big part of why she was in such a yank to get knocked up at 19. she wants what we have. haha, the joke's on her. i have no doubt that her relationship will deteriorate with the stress of a baby and she thinks she's broke now, she's never gonna have any money, and things are just going to go south in a hurry. oh well, just like all of her issues, she brought them on herself!
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