Step Talk

have fun baby-making

AND I would get what DH said IN WRITING!!! If he's anything like my BF, he changes his mind about BM and skids more often then he changes clothes!

you're a great negotiator!! and yes, have fun baby making

lol.. He KNOWS I dont forget a word of any conversation I have ever had w/him. He hates that trait about me.. and has been quoted as saying, if she is saying I said that, then she is probably correct. She doesnt forget A THING!!

I wish I could ask for it in writing.. just think that would cause issues!! lol Can you see me know.. Hi.. can you just sign right here?? ummm.. that is acknowledging that you said yes, our child could have his/her own room and that the skids would share a room for their visits.

LOL!!!

That's great! I'm happy for the positive outcome!

♥ Georgia, the un-stepmom ♥

"Good men don't just happen. They have to be created by us women." (from ROSEANNE)

Oh.. and we have gone from the fun part, to the getting help from professionals, so its not always as fun as it should be!!! ; )

I think it is great your husband has been able to avoid feeling defensive and focus on what is best for ALL the children (current and future). Good luck on having a baby of your very own!

Stepping..

OMG.. you are GOOD!! I would have never thought about that.

I am on it!!! I am going to send him an email now and then save that puppy for the future.

I need to get better at crap like this!!!

Thank you again everyone.. I cant tell you how much it helps and how sane I can stay knowing that there are other people out there that agree w/how things should be.. and how they shouldnt!!!

i read and read and read and go home and share some of the topics on here with BF. it's really been great. helps us to start a great discussion and there are so many topics and issues that i read on here that i would have never thought about before...it's funny too because if i dont say anything to him about what i've read for a few days..he's like "hello, nothing interesting to talk about from step talk?" it is great here because everyone is in different stages of step parenting and you really get some great advice that comes along with all of that wisdom from actually going through it first hand.

Seriously.. some of the topics I have brought up are directly from reading these blogs.. We then work on how we would respond if the situation arises.

That is great..

Funny how they dont see these things clearly at first!! And I swear its because men dont get kids til they are actually born.. where as women think of the pregnancy as a child already there.. from the minute of conception.