2KidsontheBlock's picture

Is this normal?

Every time I see sd14 I am in an instant bad mood. I have disengaged from her completely. But I'm still having anxiety any time im around her. I love the summer because she comes and goes as she pleases. So if her mom or aunts are doing something fun, she'd rather be over there. Which is perfectly fine with me. I have prayed about this. I wish these negative feelings would go away. Is this normal?

bi's picture

if it's not normal, then i'm

if it's not normal, then i'm not normal, either. i always felt the same way about sd19. my mood would start to sour on thursdays before her weekends here, because i was already dreading having her here for 2 miserable days. to this day, the sound of her voice and the sight of her face make me angry instantly. even hearing somebody say her name ruins my mood! some people are so toxic that they can infect your mood and emotions just by existing. that's how i feel about sd.

"I don't hold grudges. I remember facts."

dtzyblnd's picture

I guess if it's not normal,

I guess if it's not normal, we all have gone so far from normal that we've created our own brand of abnormal! LOL.

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My IPOD says you are full of bullshit!

Orange County Ca's picture

This is our instinctive

This is our instinctive desire to promote our genes over all others.

As long as the kid isn't being negatively effected by your attitude, i.e. you're faking it good, then there is no harm.

Even bio parents have favorites.

Igiveupsotornupinside's picture

Its normal. I feel this

Its normal. I feel this everytime even the phone rings with my SD17's phone number on it. Since 14 she has absolutely drove me nuts. Literally, I am on medication to deal with it.