Of course it's always DH fault....according to BM!
So this is just awesome! My SD9 birthday is coming up so DH and I were thinking about getting her a PSP, she has done great in school these last few years and we thought she should be rewarded. DH asks if BM has bought her 1 and BM says you can't get her that because SS11 isn't getting one! SS11 barely passed this last grade! He shouldn't be rewarded and getting a PSP!! But of course he is her favorite so SD can't have one! Then BM turns the tables and says "SS doesn't want to come visit because he has a problem with his dad" and "SS did bad in school because he is mad at DH"! Are you kidding me????? We see these kids only during the summer because we live far away!!! But it's our fault that SS did bad in school!!! This bitch is bat shit crazy! She has them all year but it's not her fault that SS almost failed the last grade!! She is lucky I'm not picking the kids up!! Oh and if we get the PSP for SD she said it will be taken away from SD when she gets to her house! It's no wonder SD already wants to live with us!
This is why everything we
This is why everything we bought for SD, we had to keep at our house instead of letting her take it home. BM's son was her favorite and she let him destroy everything we bought SD. But since you only have her in the summer, that would suck for her to not be able to take it home.
Yep this woman is a POS! I
Yep this woman is a POS! I told my DH we should get it for her anyways and let her mom take it away (I totally agree with you bc1983!) then she'll see who is the bad parent! Oh and did I mention that SS got an Xbox and a TV just for his room but SD did not! She is always favoring him more and now he doesn't want to come to our house because he knows he won't get the same treatment that BM gives him! Fine by me! One else plane ticket to buy! SD is very sweet and I would have no issue raising her (she is a completely different person when her BM is not around her). At the age of 12 she can decide which parent to live with and she has been wanting to live with us since last summer! When DH dropped her off after last summer's visit, she walked up to her BM and told her she didn't want to come back to her house she wanted to live with DH!! I swear that woman is engaging in PAS with SS.
Should we do family counseling while the skids are with us to see what damage has been done??