Idk why BM continues to go to my SO asking for money and helping with maintenance. Oh probably because the whole 8 years they were together she never had to lift a finger!!! I swear idk who told her he shit don't stink but OMG learn how to be independent! I always tell SO that he's partial to blame for her behavior. First, her Internet bf (who she actually went to HS with but they never talked to each other then reconnected on fb and became a couple on fb 5months before meeting each other) came to "surprise" her and visit for a week. She picks up SD17months cuz its her night with her and about 10pm she calls SO back saying she's dropping the baby back to him because her bf called that he's coming in the next day and she needs to clean the house so she'll be there in 20mins. WTF??!! It's too late to be bringing a Baby out at that time and so you can clean?!?! What?? You never cleaned your place before with your child awake?? Then she's asks "can you keep SD for a week because my bf wants to spend as much time as he can with me?" WOOOOW!! I told SO don't do it. BM would NEVER do any favors for you and she needs to learn that sometimes you cant always have your fun when youre a mother. We started thinking that it was planned all along and not a surprise. We went back and forth on what to do,but SO decided he would take SD for the week. Do you think BM contacted SO that whole time?? NOPE!!! then the day before BMs bf leaves she asked to pick up the baby and SO met the new bf. everything went well, the new bf was very respectful, put his hand out like a man and shook SO hand. They briefly talked while BM stood there monitoring. He seemed like a decent guy. I wonder why he would be so interested in such a bitch. Anyways, BM sister text SO asking him why would he keep SD away from BM for so long? WHAT?!?! Apparently BM brought the baby and her new bf to her Mom's house literally crying to them that SO wouldn't give SD back for a week and she asked if he can watch her for a couple of extra days. SO fwd all of BM text messages asking to keep SD for a week! BM sister knew she was lying!!! BM is pretty much trying to play everyone! Like she's a daym victim! so after BM bf leaves, her toilet gets clogged and it's flooded with 2 inches of water in the bathroom floor. Who does she call?? My SO!! I'm sorry he is not obligated to do shit for you!! She acts like she's got her shit together but still ask SO for help financially over and over. SO tells her to ask her new man but I'm sure she's playing him like she has everything under control. What a bitch!