Idk why BM continues to go to my SO asking for money and helping with maintenance. Oh probably because the whole 8 years they were together she never had to lift a finger!!! I swear idk who told her he shit don't stink but OMG learn how to be independent! I always tell SO that he's partial to blame for her behavior. First, her Internet bf (who she actually went to HS with but they never talked to each other then reconnected on fb and became a couple on fb 5months before meeting each other) came to "surprise" her and visit for a week. She picks up SD17months cuz its her night with her and about 10pm she calls SO back saying she's dropping the baby back to him because her bf called that he's coming in the next day and she needs to clean the house so she'll be there in 20mins. WTF??!! It's too late to be bringing a Baby out at that time and so you can clean?!?! What?? You never cleaned your place before with your child awake?? Then she's asks "can you keep SD for a week because my bf wants to spend as much time as he can with me?" WOOOOW!! I told SO don't do it. BM would NEVER do any favors for you and she needs to learn that sometimes you cant always have your fun when youre a mother. We started thinking that it was planned all along and not a surprise. We went back and forth on what to do,but SO decided he would take SD for the week. Do you think BM contacted SO that whole time?? NOPE!!! then the day before BMs bf leaves she asked to pick up the baby and SO met the new bf. everything went well, the new bf was very respectful, put his hand out like a man and shook SO hand. They briefly talked while BM stood there monitoring. He seemed like a decent guy. I wonder why he would be so interested in such a bitch. Anyways, BM sister text SO asking him why would he keep SD away from BM for so long? WHAT?!?! Apparently BM brought the baby and her new bf to her Mom's house literally crying to them that SO wouldn't give SD back for a week and she asked if he can watch her for a couple of extra days. SO fwd all of BM text messages asking to keep SD for a week! BM sister knew she was lying!!! BM is pretty much trying to play everyone! Like she's a daym victim! so after BM bf leaves, her toilet gets clogged and it's flooded with 2 inches of water in the bathroom floor. Who does she call?? My SO!! I'm sorry he is not obligated to do shit for you!! She acts like she's got her shit together but still ask SO for help financially over and over. SO tells her to ask her new man but I'm sure she's playing him like she has everything under control. What a bitch!
Playing the helpless card..so pathetic
Submitted by god671 on Wed, 06/20/2012 - 12:38pm
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>>>>>>>>he toilet gets
>>>>>>>>he toilet gets clogged and it's flooded with 2 inches of water in the bathroom floor. Who does she call?? My SO!! I'm sorry he is not obligated to do shit for you!!
I don't know why that made me laugh so hard. Her toulet got clogged, he is not obligated to take care of her shit. LOL, I know I am a child. I can't help it.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
LMAO!! There was no pun
LMAO!! There was no pun intended! I didn't even see that!
**i will NOT bring balloons to your pity party**
That's not like you to miss a
That's not like you to miss a pun. Do you need a cup of coffee?
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
You should know that your cow
You should know that your cow up there ^^^ makes me smile every time I look at it. I love that it has big human teeth and lips. So funny.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
LMAO, my bad. Well then, I
LMAO, my bad. Well then, I apologize.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
Holy crap I need to proof
Holy crap I need to proof read before I save..so many typos
**i will NOT bring balloons to your pity party**
HAHA, that's funny.
HAHA, that's funny.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
HAHA, that's funny.
HAHA, that's funny.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
SO actually asked BM to watch
SO actually asked BM to watch SD for a weekend that was his cuz he and I had plans..she came back with "I'm not changing my schedule so you can do whatever you want" wow, you turned down the opportunity to have a weekend with your kid cuz you're always complaining you never have her (which she really doesn't, custody is 50/50 but since she works in the morning SD gets dropped to SO and he provides a sitter while they both work in the morning until BM gets off from work and has her at night). That's ok, SO took care of it and he and I had a GREAT weekend together.
**i will NOT bring balloons to your pity party**
My BM tried doing the same
My BM tried doing the same thing to DH until one day I told her in person that BM had enough men coming and going out of her house that I was sure one of them knew how to use a tool.
Haven't heard about that shit since
Dropping the SM and taking back MY life!
I haven't seen anyone mention
I haven't seen anyone mention "it's for the kids" yet. BM here used to get SO to do maintenance, hand over cash, or whatever "for the sake of the kids". The toilets he unclogged, the water heater he fixed, the brake job, the lunch money...you name it...he did it "for the sake of the kids" or "the house is still in my name".
A few times I calmly told him she could hire someone or take her car to the shop or budget her money, that it wasn't his responsibility. I think then he just did these things without me knowing. But the time I completely flipped out, the last straw, was when I pulled into my own driveway of my own house that I bought on my own and he was taping plastic sheeting onto the driver side door of her car from where her boyfriend punched through the glass and broke it. There was broken glass in my (gravel) driveway that was still evidently falling off the car. She was all crying. I would not give her the satisfaction of reacting in front of her, so I went straight in the house, but man did I ever let him have it when he got in. He's going to fall for her being so helpless she can't work a roll of tape?!?
I can't remember anymore if that incident was the catalyst, but he doesn't do anything for her anymore.
What's that saying? "Lack of planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on part".
From what I can recall, she
From what I can recall, she never really used "it's for the kids" on SO, sort of just paid for things because in his head he did it for his
Daughter. For a long time he was paying her rent, the car, power and cable. That pissed me off soooo bad for him to be so stupid. It's her fault she didn't have a job! Her dumbass quit after two weeks of going back to work from being on leave because she couldn't be away from the baby. STFU! she needs someone to take care of her, that's why she's holding on to her bf now cuz he's in the military and that's guaranteed she'll be fine if they get married. She's really in for a treat cuz I was a military/ civilian dependent and I know what that world is like. Eventually my SO stopped paying for everything..finally!
**i will NOT bring balloons to your pity party**