So my husband & I are having issues. He's wanting to leave due to our fighting over stupid issues. My problem is he constantly tells his sister about our fights but never includes what he has done in the relationship. So last week I told her about it so she could gain a real perspective of the relationship. She then went on facebook and told everyone about what I had done in the marriage & told everyone I was schizophrenic and needed meds!My husband never said I word to her about it...his reasoning bc he had planned to leave anyways. So I guess that makes it ok.
So we decided to keep working on our marriage w/ counseling then we had another fight two nights ago at four in the morning. He of course tells his sister about it and I find out they have been talking about me the entire time behind my back. He says he has to talk to someone about it & I admit its better than his ex-wife when he was talking to her about it...but that's another story. Now he's once again not sure if he wants to do the counseling and his sis is telling him he should get a hotel and such. This is not helping and very discouraging. I have no idea what to do. If hes comfortable talking about me behind my back I feel our marriage is broken beyond repair. Or do I just work on it and ignore their talk?