BM #1 just called...... demanding for us to give her MOTHER grocery money. SD17 made a choice (because she hates me) to NOT stay with us this summer and to stay in a town 40 miles away and with her mom's mother. Um............ so now BM is telling us WE have no choice. We owe that money cuz she is SO daughter? I have been saying all along this woman is insane. Her demanding of money 24-7 on TOP of the CS she gets. I am in shock and honestly am at the point of calling this bitch. WE can barely afford our own food. Which I have posted on here regarding this before. We get three good meals a week on our income. And now we have skids here all summer so now we have 6 of us to feed. Not just the 3 of us. And this crazy ass bitch thinks we are going to give this woman MONEY for food........ please somebody just shoot me now.
She should be giving the
She should be giving the child support paid to her to her mother as her mother is caring for the child. You pay a set amount - period. Let the crazy BM and the more likely than not crazy woman who spawned her fight it out between themselves!
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Totally agree. Alert the
Totally agree. Alert the Child Support department that the child is no longer in BM's home and then when they stop making you make payments, let Grandma file for CS.
Why can't she give the
Why can't she give the support money to her mom? It's not like she'll need it to support her kid if her kid ain't there. Tell BM to french kiss your ass.
My 17yo niece lives with my
My 17yo niece lives with my mom. Her biofather pays child support to my mom...
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
Or why can't she give the
Or why can't she give the $800 food stamps that she is collecting all summer for kids she doesn't have....... she is frauding the state and getting that amount by saying she lives alone, no job and only gets CS. She could afford to give her mom half of that for groceries...... but she is selfish.
I was so pist off over this today that I turned her in again to the state for not reporting income.
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I forgot about her foodstamp
I forgot about her foodstamp fraud. What a bitch.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
Don't give her any money.
Don't give her any money.
You've got to keep up the CS
You've got to keep up the CS though until the CS department says stop or you'll be delinquent and that'll bite you in the ass. Definitely call the CS office and Foodstamp office (DSHS here) and report her butt to the authorities!
WE aren't not giving CS, we
WE aren't not giving CS, we are. She is wanting us to give additional money to HER mom for SD17 being there for the summer. I turned her in today. This is the second time I have turned her in. This time I gave her BF full name, number and their home address and his work address and phone.
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Right, so what would happen
Right, so what would happen if you sent the CS to her mom instead since she is not staying with BM?
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
The court order says pay it
The court order says pay it to BM. Failure to do so can be considered a criminal act - disobeying a court lawful order. You can file to change it of course.
He told BM he would send half
He told BM he would send half to her mom and half to her. She threw a fit.... and told him no. We had to figure it out and give her mom some cash.
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Who made her the ruler of
Who made her the ruler of everything? I would ignore her.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
If the CO hasn't changed, DH
If the CO hasn't changed, DH would get in trouble for not sending the full amount. BM should give part of the money to her mother to cover SD's expenses.
Of course she is going to
Of course she is going to keep asking for this crap, if you do it.
She sounds like a lunatic.
Bricks and dogs and babies, Oh my!
tell granny to go apply for
tell granny to go apply for FOOD STAMPS to feed the brat .. ::smirks:: that puts it back on BM to hand over the cs for the care and upkeep of the skid .. because the state will make her do that !
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She tried that. The BM has to
She tried that. The BM has to release SD17 from her food stamp card in order to do that. And she won't. Crazy isn't it? SD17 is with her mom and she still gets Food Stamps until SHE releases her daughter from her account.
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I would report that kid is no
I would report that kid is no longer residing with BM so why would you be paying CS to her? unbelivable
This one sounds like she's
This one sounds like she's following the same path my ex took slipping into insanity over past mistakes. In the end I felt only pity. Almost only then she died early via failure to get medical attention for perinitis - a very painful infection in the gut. It had to have been so bad I can't consider it anything but suicide.
Lmao!!! Plz dont give any
Lmao!!! Plz dont give any money- tell BM directly that the food stamps should then pay Grandma!! Geesh!! These BMs are disgusting!!
Sadly the state we live in
Sadly the state we live in does not recognize summer visitation as the kids not being with BM. He has no choice by law.
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"We had to figure it out and
"We had to figure it out and give her mom some cash."
Why?
I was saying thats what BM
I was saying thats what BM said....
"we had to figure it out and give her mom some cash"
OF course I realize how crazy this is and told SO but he went to his lawyer anyway. His lawyer told him. NO more even replying to her insanity. He gives court ordered support to BM and its up to her selfish ass to help her mother out. My MIL had a good point yesterday. I told her what they were "demanding" she was all fired up. They stayed with her for two summers with SO before I came along. She said BM never lifted a finger to help them on groceries and ALL THREE kids were staying there not just one.
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Yeah, BM is nuts. SHE is the
Yeah, BM is nuts. SHE is the one that needs to figure it out. The lawyer is right, don't even reply, not even to say "no". What a loon.
that is excatly what needs to
that is excatly what needs to be done this is not your problem ignore any request from BM regarding this issue and forget it
I can actually see the BM's
I can actually see the BM's logic here, even though it doesn't make it right.
In her mind you were supposed to have SD17 for the summer. You would have to provide groceries for her while she was at your house, and as you explained earlier, you still have to pay BM CS even if you have the kids for the summer.
Therefore, instead of having to buy extra groceries because SD is there, you should give her mom the money.
Yep, that's how a lot of them think.
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800 a month in food stamps?!
800 a month in food stamps?! Wow. Must be freakin' nice! DH and I applied back when he was handing half his checks over to the cow for spawn support. They told us we make too much money. WTF? I'm sooooo glad he doesn't have to give that dumb b!tch money anymore.
Oh... BM here gets over $600
Oh... BM here gets over $600 per month. And it is just her and SS8.
"They were threatened by my intelligence and too stupid to know that is why they hated me."- Sheldon Lee Cooper
In Indiana when you pay
In Indiana when you pay CS...you only pay 1/2 on the weeks you have the kids for summer break and vacations, per the Indiana State Guidelines. I'd check with my state and see what the rule is. Our BM has has tried all of this including having the kids say stuff like, "Mommy said to tell you to buy us school pants." That was from the mouth of a 7 year old.
I wish our state was like
I wish our state was like that but it is not. He pays no matter what. BM has skids call and ask for $ all the time. One time even for $5 to be put in her bank account so SS14 could go get a pop and a treat at their local store (they are six hours away).... yep our BM is freaken insane...
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