I wrote in Family Court forum a couple weeks back about a threat BM made, to contact our town and prevent skids from attending camp here (last year they split time here and in her town). Their stepsiblings go to camp here, they love camp here- it's a partial-day camp where I pick up at noon, then we do lunch/pool/etc...for the rest of the day.
There's a lot more to it, including the CO from 2010 that DH signed in hopes of helping her be able to move on (ah, that nugget). He has put in for a change of circumstance, since we got married after that, I am a teacher who can be home with these kids and can run a life with a half-day camp, their step-siblings go there, etc.......but they will not have prelim until end of June, so it's likely that for the skids, this summer is not going to be much fun. All by her hand. All because of her sickness, her inability to move the hell on. I will have a newborn, I will be running my sweet babies to camps, and if skids really have nowhere to go on the mornings my kids are at camp they will be doing quiet things on DH's custody days. Things like reading, writing, math. I will not be entertaining them during my only downtime, baby's naptime. She is so disgusting. The irony is that for someone who wants to limit their time with me, she's actually increasing it tenfold. That's her game. I think she still thinks that I want to replace her as their mother? That was last year's drama. If she only knew how tired I have gotten of the entire thing. I so wish that I wasn't planning my summer around two kids who aren't mine. Ugh. We just cannot afford the full-day camp that she wants to send them to. And, admittedly, time with their stepsibs is important. She always has to try to over-dramify everything and screw everything up.