SD16 has no friends.

SD16 is now being moved to her own bedroom because the most laid back DD I have doesnt want to room with SD16 because she goes days and days with out speaking to me or either of my DD's.

SD16 has no boyfriends, she had a boyfriend months ago who was home schooled and graduating highschool at 16. He was alittle socially needed and would text her all the time and if she didnt answer him right away he would get upset. He was alittle inmature but then again...ummmm SD16's mentality is that of a 7 year old.

This relationship came to an end when she blew off this poor kid, treated him like shit for weeks and he showed up one day at my house and SD left me there holding the bag to do her dirty work and tell the poor kid I really thought she was not worth his time.

There have been two other boys in my home since her return in August. One was super cute, friendly but definatly "16/17" years old and looking to score and have a "normal" be giddy, kissy and lovey relationship. You know a boyfriend girlfriend relationship. However it didnt take him long to figure out that if he so much as smooched her on the cheek she was ready to run to the alter.

The other darling boy, is in a very elite highschool and has hopes of becoming a brain surgeon after he finishes highschool which is a highly proclaimed allied health medical program that he attends at his highschool. Yeah he figured out she was "alittle" different after a week.

Now I am disengaged and my hearing is getting better by the day, it is easy to see intentions when your not blinded by anger and resentment.

Poor boy that she made me dump and break his heart because she literally left me holding the bag, you know the one that called 25 times a day, yeah well she is pursueing him and had the nerve to tell DD's that it is just so she has a "boyfriend" she doesnt really like him but "he will do for now"

OMG I really am living with BM. Sad part is although she is not sexually active now she definatly feels like "noone wants her" outside the house as well as with in (both which she has brought on herself) This dysfunction in a teenage girl is NOT good and often leads to her seeking acceptance of a man through sex....it is going to be a LONG summer. Glad she is with BM for a month of it...

I am not telling DH what I am seeing or my observation either, I am disengaged and ignored anyway...so why bother...but I can tell you, if this results in a teenage pregnancy, she wont be living with me!