I don't think my sd and ss realize how hard it would be on their father if I were to get to the point of packing up and moving. Although his son is starting to try and I say try in a minimal manner to be a little nice to me. We are not to the point of palsy walsy yet far from it but I believe we are both getting on the same page. We both know where we are coming from for I have actually told him I have learned from the best, meaning my ex, so please don't lie or treat me like a moron. His daughter on the other hand is living in assisted living apt. now Thank you dear u know who, but continues to drive the wedge whenever possible. I have seen and heard positve reinforcement from him to my sd so i believe we might have hope. He is trying to show me respect and that is a major milestone for him. I also noticed he will talk on the phone with her and use the word we pertaining to him and I and I feel positive about that.