chochiemom's picture

I'm Normal!!!! thank god i found this site

I found this site 2 weeks ago.. and wow.. just reading other people's trials of being a step parent has eased my mind. I know know I'm not the only one feeling this heavy guilt of not caring if i ever see my step daughter again. I thought i was a rotten person .. but i know realize that i am only human.. our new spouse must realize that their children are "their" creation.. not ours .. I have my 2 creations and i think they are normal polite kids.

I love reading everyones posts.. but i need to be taught all the short forms... i'm getting sd ss ... but if someone could make a list of the short forms that would be great.

sarahbernheart's picture

I had the same problem

I can give you the ones I know..I am pretty new too.
FH = future husband
DH Dear husband or D**k head.hee
BM bio mom
BD bio dad
skids = step kids
welcome you are NOT crazy!!
It is so refreshing to know you are not alone
welcome welcome!

“You will never be on top of the world
if you try to carry it on your shoulders.”

evilsm's picture

Not Evil and Wicked

With our poisoned apples and flying brooms. Evil Glad you are here chochie, welcome!

~Evil

If you want children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shoulders. ~Abigail Van Buren

Cruella's picture

I am!!!!

I am evil and wicked and proud of it LOL! Or as DH would tell it I am menapausal

Welcome to this site!! You are not crazy.

"Better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than to open it and remove all doubt" Eye-wink

crayon's picture

Welcome Aboard Normal Step Mother!

Happy perusing!

Sita Tara's picture

Normal is relative...

And abnormal relatives can make even the most normal of us NUTS.

Welcome aboard. I wish I could guarantee you smooth sailing and a pleasurable journey but....ummmm....as you mentioned after reading our posts that's not really gonna happen for most of us here.

Peace, love, and red wine

littlegrlzx4's picture

welcome

misery loves company, and good advice Smiling

smurfy1smile's picture

welcome

MIL = mother in law
FIL = father in law

SD - step daughter
SS = step son
bd - birth/bio daughter
bs = birth/bio son
BF = birth/bio father or boyfriend
SO = significant other

Welcome and good luck - I am new to this too

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