My OWN closet with my own clothes that no one else borrows or steals
Going shopping for clothes, knowing that only I'll be wearing them
Leaving my make-up, jewelry, hair things out in plain view and having them there when I get back
Being able to take a nap at home when I'm tired
The only dirty maxi pads/tampons I had to deal with were my own
Not having to ask people to turn down tv's and stop screaming 100 times per night
Being able to sleep at night without noise
Never waking up at 6:00 am for any reason
Having romance with H instead of arguments over kids
Not driving kids here and there at night
Listening to my music and practicing singing whenever I wanted without anyone listening or bothering me to be quiet
Getting home and finding the place the same way I left it, not trashed by kids
No teenagers running around the house screaming and throwing tantrums
No lawn mowing/snow blower
No one looking at porn on my computer
No teenagers asking me what there is to eat, and expecting me to cook for them every time I walk by.
No one walking in my room and turning on the light when I'm sleeping
Not having to wear earplugs
Not having to hear SD thundering around the house, with every footstep making a big boom
Not having to hear SD's annoying voice yelling "Abba, bo rega!" 50,000 times a night
Not having to deal with H's ex calling him every single day
Not having SD calling me all the time and wanting me to do things constantly
Not having to deal with SD crying like a two year old whenever she can't find something
No more mental breakdowns and emergencies that change my plans for the night
No taking care of other people's kids when they don't want to..







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