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what I miss

My OWN closet with my own clothes that no one else borrows or steals

Going shopping for clothes, knowing that only I'll be wearing them

Leaving my make-up, jewelry, hair things out in plain view and having them there when I get back

Being able to take a nap at home when I'm tired

The only dirty maxi pads/tampons I had to deal with were my own

Not having to ask people to turn down tv's and stop screaming 100 times per night

Being able to sleep at night without noise

Never waking up at 6:00 am for any reason

Having romance with H instead of arguments over kids

Not driving kids here and there at night

Listening to my music and practicing singing whenever I wanted without anyone listening or bothering me to be quiet

Getting home and finding the place the same way I left it, not trashed by kids

No teenagers running around the house screaming and throwing tantrums

No lawn mowing/snow blower

No one looking at porn on my computer

No teenagers asking me what there is to eat, and expecting me to cook for them every time I walk by.

No one walking in my room and turning on the light when I'm sleeping

Not having to wear earplugs

Not having to hear SD thundering around the house, with every footstep making a big boom

Not having to hear SD's annoying voice yelling "Abba, bo rega!" 50,000 times a night

Not having to deal with H's ex calling him every single day

Not having SD calling me all the time and wanting me to do things constantly

Not having to deal with SD crying like a two year old whenever she can't find something

No more mental breakdowns and emergencies that change my plans for the night

No taking care of other people's kids when they don't want to..

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