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The StepTalk Move is a Success!

Welcome back StepTalk users! It looks like our move to the new server was successful!

We'll be monitoring the site for problems, but if you see any, feel free to email webmaster@steptalk.org and let us know.

If you notice any performance changes, bad or good, we would like to hear about them as well. We may still need to tweek some settings.

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Stepmom M's picture

Help

I need your help! I am 30 years old and just married a man with 2 teenagers. I have not met their mother, but she is bad-mouthing me in front of them. I want to be a part of their school activities, but my husband thinks that if I show up at anything they do, their mother will want to start WWIII. I think I'm a pretty likeable person, and maybe I'm naive, but I thought it would be so much easier than this. It's hard going from on my own to this. And, the youngest (12 years old) still sleeps in the bed with my husband, which means now right in between the 2 of us. We got married less than one month ago. Can someone give me some advice with their mom AND how to get the 12 year old out of our bed??

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BM

First of all, somehow you managed to put this thread in the wrong place, but I am going to answer anyway. You need to get the kd out of your bed. I don't care what it takes get him out of there. That is not a healthy place for him to be. Its not going to help your marriage either.
Second of all, yes you are very naive. Give it time and hopefully everything will fall into place. A lot of times BM hates the new wife so give everyone time to adjust.

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