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Submitted by kay on Wed, 12/26/2007 - 10:22pm.

Christmas has now come and gone ... problem, SD goes to grandmothers for X-mas eve, we pick her up at 9, she is cold drunk! Only 15 yrs old. Grandma says what do you want me to do about it! That is the first issue, second, SD says she has a drinking problem, third point/problem, we call bio mom, open communication right??, and she says she doesn't have a problem with that and that she is aware that she drinks and smokes "on occasion" "I don't buy it for them but it is in the fridge in our house." That is what she told us. I am baffled. We don't even have alchol in our house. So now we sit 6 our hours away from the kids knowing that they can drink, smoke and apparently do whatever they hell they want whenever they would like. SD is constantly saying her mom is her best friend. Damn it woman stop being a friend a be a MOM!!!

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Wow

Submitted by LVmyBOXERS on Wed, 12/26/2007 - 11:03pm.

SD has told me in not so many words that her mom let's her drink at home. She too is 15 about to be 16. I hope this is not a sign of things to come. Yes these women need to step up and be moms instead of friends. I am not aware that friend is necessarily in the job description of parent...

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I know what you mean

Submitted by Cruella on Thu, 12/27/2007 - 6:57am.

BM drinks with her 3 oldest children (they are all in their 20's but below the drinking age). One visitation she took all of her children to a hotel and the 3 oldest children, BM, and her husband all got drunk in front of skids. I heard stories of the hotel trash cans being used by filling up with ice and putting wine and beer in them. This was coming out of my skids. DH and I were lived. This woman has never been a real mom to any of her children and now she is teaching them to be a drunk just like she has become. They even drove in the car with SKIDs in that condition. Skids told me their SD only "had a couple of beers" and drove them back to the hotel.

DH and I were livid. We try to set a good example for the kids. I don't drink at all. DH may drink one beer every other week. BTW for Easter instead of SS(14) getting a basket. His mother bought him a set of shot glasses!!!!!!!

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