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No more communication is the way?

clareezine's picture

I guess I'm seeking reassurance here about me stopping communication with SD19.
Our story is probably very similar to some here.
SD19 got pregnant at 17 so we helped her and her EX(yes, he's ex now) by offering them to move in. Didn't work out since we were "too controling" at the time. Took her only staying two weeks and she decided to move out.
One year later, after SD and EX splited cause she cheated on him, she came to beg us to let her move in with the baby. We did, only told her this time will be even more restrict. It last a bit longer this time, 3 months to be exact. I kicked her out when she had a stand off with me on the curfew that she agreed to before moving in.
I found out she not only lied, she stole and went through some of my stuff when she lived in my house.
3 months later after out of our house, she's pregnant with her current boyfriend and have the 2nd baby now. her boyfriend tried to stick up for her by holding her lies over our heads. I told him to get his facts straight before he made a fool of himself.
I've had enough of her stiring up the trouble for us. I decided it's time to stop the communication with her or people she connects with. Why do I have to defend our innocense against her lies?! Especially after we've helped her once and once again?!
She lied about how horrible we treated her and told a completely different story as to how I kicked her out for no reason and she begged and stayed on the front porch and cried all night long.
Manipulative little bitch and thief.
It is time for me to disengage from the drama she creates and let her and her idiot boyfriend enjoy her drama. I have way more important things to do than playing along.
Thanks for letting me vent.

the_evil_one's picture

Oh wow, that sounds so horrible. I don't see how anyone can co-exist with trash like that and live a happy life. Sounds like you're doing the right thing.

clareezine's picture

the evil one,
She is a white trash. I am sorry to say it but that's exactly what she is.
Hope this is the end of it.

clareezine's picture

picklenickle72
Ha,I guess I'm not alone! My hubby started the no-communication first and he definitely supports my decision. And yes about MIL, my MIL is very two-face about this issue. She will agree with me when I talk to her, then turn around buy into SD's lies and come back and question me. ugh, I love MIL as we get along great other than this issue. I'm tired of have to prove my innocense against outregeous lies.
Enough is enough.