BIOMOM's picture

Oh yes, I do believe.......

Oh yes, I do believe in the power of prayer. And the love and comfort and support that you receive from others when your not doing so well……..

So, ladies, take a bow. Not only were your predictions right regarding the biopsy, but your words, advice, wisdom and thoughts carried me through these past 3 weeks.

As the doctor was preparing the needle for the biopsy, she was feeling around for the lump and staring at the ultrasound thingy-ma-jig. After feeling me up for what seemed like forever ~ I finally asked “WTF”?

She said she did not see, nor feel the “lump” in my breast. I explained to her that it could not be that hard to find considering the fact that the “lump” was golf-sized and my breast was not much bigger. Of course, she laughed….. And then proceeded to find her co-hort doctor to get his thrills by poking, prodding, squeezing, and finally flattening my right boob!

The “lump” is completely gone. Poof. Disappeared without a trace. I even asked them to check the other breast in case lumpy decided to travel on to the other side of my chest. Unfortunately for me, I was serious. You should have seen the looks on their faces. I got that “Can you honestly be that stupid” look from the doctors and a promise that the lump did not travel anywhere.

Your emails, im’s, myspace comments, and posts have done for me what I could not do for myself. You had hope, where I had none. You were positive, when I was drama. You were enlightening with your own experiences that were somewhat similar. Thank you for that.

In a recent post, a newbie decided to let us all know that she would be “moving on” from our little site here because of the lack of sensitivity and solutions discussed here. She found it necessary to let us know that our children were not to blame for all of our problems, and that she needed to find somewhere with a more positive spin on her steparenting issues.

When I sought out for help regarding an issue I was having with my son’s stepmom, I came here.

However, I received my answers within the first few days. I did not stay here because of those issues, but because of the women (and 2 men) that share their experience strength and hope with each other on a daily basis. Not always parent/step/spouse related.

I come here to ask for an insight, offer advice and hopefully support the people on here as much as they support me.

Again, thank you all.

All my love,
Janice

PS: I blame my son ALL the time for things that are his fault! Am I wrong? Eye-wink

luvdagirl's picture

WOnderful news congrats!

I am so glad to hear that,I mean other than the long fondle-you have a female dr. doesn't she have her own? As for the newby this site says venting not making it all the fluffy happys since we don't get all those but if mine was a movie it would be wizzard of oz-Sorry feeling a little evil!Everything either of my children do wrong is their fault too-I haven't seen the person with a perfect childhood yet so should we all blame our parents?

stamina's picture

Nice to hear Biomom!

Good news! You were one of the people who showed encouragement and support for me when I came to this site. I do remember some times when you were about ready to give up to because of opinions that you expressed that were against the grain. Times changed for you because people gave you a chance and you never gave up.

JustAnotherSM's picture

Yeah...

Can I say... I told you so! *wink*

I'm glad to hear it. Had us worried you know!

Eye-wink StepMom

Man has the intelligence to change his life,
Sometimes, he just fails to use it...

S.Graham39's picture

Biomom, I am so happy for you sweetie!!!!

Lovers do not finally meet somewhere, they were with each other all along.

I agree 100% that it so much more that keeps us individualy here and has thus formed a family so to speak amongst us all. Great big hugs to you, never had a doubt you would be fine.

ColorMeGone's picture

Woo hoooooooooo!

I'm so, so glad that you're okay. And I loved your other comments about the site and the people here. I so agree.

~ Anne ~

"Love, having no geography, knows no boundaries."
(Truman Capote)

marika's picture

{{{{{{{Janice}}}}}}

I am so glad that everything went well and I hope your doctors enjoyed playing with your boobs!

I know what you mean about the people here. It is a truly wonderful group.

marika

Fearless's picture

Aw Janice, YAY!!!!

I'm SO SO SO glad, AND, I TOLD YOU SO!! Laughing out loud

i LOVE ya!

Fearless
________________________________________________________________
Rollin' with it since 2006...

laughterandtears's picture

Alright!!

The power of prayers, aren't they a wonderful thing? Now you can be drama free, for the moment anyways.

Nah, you're not wrong for blaming your son, I hold my accountable for what they do also! LOL

~THE EXERCISE THAT REALLY CHANGES YOUR LIFE IS WALKING DOWN THE AISLE~

Dawn's picture

That's great Janice!

I'm happy to hear your good news!!

Dawn

Mocha2001's picture

I am so happy for you ...

I am so happy for you ... I'm glad it all worked out, and I too belive in the power of prayer and positive thinking.

Kisses and hugs!

~ Katrina

Catch22's picture

Hugs to Janice!!

You must feel utter relief!! So great to hear everything is fine. Yes, we are great, you are all great!!

Love ya's all!! And yes, our little site rocks!!

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

everythinghappens4areason's picture

You brought tears to my eyes.....

When reading your post I said a little prayer, not only for the fact that you no longer have the lump but for your beautiful words that you have received so much support from everyone. I am definitely on the right site, because I need this very same support to get through some of the everyday "crap" I am dealing with. Thanks for sharing your fantastic news with us.

Corie

SoFrustrated's picture

YAY

YAY I'm so happy for you!

Tired2's picture

EXCELLENT!

I'm so glad everything turned out positively for you! *HUGS* to you! I also agree about the people on this site. Some days if not for everyone's words of encouragement I don't know what I would have done.

happy's picture

This is awesome news..

Scary for awhile but a wonderful outcome.. Hugs to you GirlFriend..
Happy
"live life to its fullest everyday"

Imustbcrazy's picture

HUGS!!!!

That is the best news I have heard all day!!! You made it, as we knew you would.

Still in my prayers... just because Eye-wink

Daddys Gurl

It's Better To Have Loved And Lost, Than To Have Spent The Rest Of My Life With THAT PSYCHO!!!!

Stepmom_C's picture

Great News!!

Been thinking about you and so happy to hear the news Smiling

BIOMOM's picture

As I said before

in the post previous to this, about being scared, I was actually thinking to myself (about the boys being separated if something were to happen to me), I would need to get all of your email addresses and forward where the kids would be living.

Because of my fear of them never getting to see each other again, I knew I could depend on some of you to kick both my ex's asses into doing the right thing.....encouraging the relationship between my two sons.......

As I said, I trust most ppl here more than I trust ppl I see everyday......

Love to all of you. And thanks again for your warming and heartfelt support!

Janice

Imustbcrazy's picture

Strange Isn't It?

How we are so able to talk so freely with one another, take one anothers advice and have TRUE concern for the well being of people was have never actually MET, other than via cyber space. There is something to be said for that kind of support system.

Daddys Gurl

It's Better To Have Loved And Lost, Than To Have Spent The Rest Of My Life With THAT PSYCHO!!!!

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