What do you do when you have a mother in law that still refers to her ex daughter in law as if she is still her daughter in law and treats your kids differently from the ex wife's children although they are still her grand kids how do you handle something like that? How do you treat or respond to her?







Mother inlaw needs to get on
Mother inlaw needs to get on with her life. SHe muse=t be lonely. But lets blame the "daughter in law" too. SHe has re married, if she can not let go of the past there will be issues. THe man is working on having a new life on HIs terms. Bringing in others from another relationship is not fair to him. They say you cant chooses your inlaws, you should not have to include people that have nothing to do with you and you future.
New life
Be thankful for what you have and not what you could have. Maybe it is a blessing the mother in law is not in your business. Maybe that was part of the first failed marriage. Maybe this is a better future for you. No sense knocking yourself out if the relationship was not meant to be.
you need to have a sit down
you need to have a sit down and tell her exactly how you feel simple I know but then at least your husband will see that youve tried and maybe he will support you !
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