Just thought I'd share this. BM used myspace as an open forum to bash me and DH a couple of years ago. Her, her friends and family posted horrible stuff on their about us. BM even stole pictures, paragraphs, blogs, etc from my page and posted them on her page as if they were hers. She also posted hundreds of SS's baby pictures on there, many with DH in them, once she found out we were pregnant.
Well, I got pretty ticked about the situation at first. Then, I used her ignorance to my advantage. I copied all of SS's baby pictures from her page and made DH a scrapbook of them. He had no pictures of SS from when he was a baby and the scrapbook was very special to him. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's not always possible, but try to find a way to use these crazy women's ignorance for your good.
I don't talk about BM execpt
I don't talk about BM execpt for here.....I would hope she doesn't speak of me and pretends I don't exist. But I never really looked to see if she put anything out there about me....
This is a great idea though, good for you!
Thanks to my trouble making
Thanks to my trouble making IL's we knew exactly what BM was saying about us on the net. When we went to see for ourselves I realized I could use her pictures. Lol!!!
We have made copies of all
We have made copies of all of BM's facebook status's that she has posted to trash FH & I. She doesn't realize that we can see what she posts, but I will be sitting the courtroom when our attorney presents her with those copies. But for now, she thinks facebook is her safe haven and can write anything she wants. I will cherish the day that she chokes on her own "words"!
Mommy21, great post and
Mommy21, great post and kudos to you for turning lemons into lemonade! This is yet ANOTHER reason for why I am so against all of the internet social networking sites such as Facebook, Myspace, Match.com, etc... This site is literally the ONLY site that I think of as "legitimate" in terms of its intended purpose - and quite frankly, the only one I use. The other sites are nothing but trouble, IMO (generally speaking). I don't use any of those other sites - just not worth the drama.
What a fruitcake! WHy can't
What a fruitcake! WHy can't these BM's go on with their lives. My gosh... can't some people let go of the past.
OMG that is so great!! I
OMG that is so great!! I agree yours is the best use I have seen of the social networking sites!
I don't use any of them either, or I would never get anything done. Every night my DH says, 'get off the internet!'!!
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