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bm being stupid....again

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No suprise here. BM just lost in court to her other kids dad, whom dragged the process out for over 2 years. She was so sure she would win with all her drug use history among other things, but she didnt. Now shes started her every once in a while harassment over wanting more visitation with her son, one of which she didnt see but about 20 times from age 5 months to 1 and a half, then a little more from the until 2, and hes now 3 she gets every other weekend. She rarely even keeos him the whole weekend, she cant handle all her 4 kids at once, so i just dont understand how shed see him more? Weve tried extra visits and she gets rid of those real quick so we told her we are never changing the arrangement again. I get so sick of her fit throwing. She was whining last night about how she cant stay at home all day like me because shes a single mom, mind you she only has custody of her 7 month old because she has no clue who the dad is. She said nobody even knows hes her son, well hows that our fault? Exercise your visitation time and they would! Then she went on to say he shouldnt call me mommy and she tells him not to even though ive raised him while she wanted nothing to do with him and he chose to calk me that, he knows shes mommy too. She also went on to say that she needs her son back because im about to have a son of my own and i wont have time for him? Seriously we have a 1 and a half year old daughter too but i guess she doesnt take up too much of my time. I seriously do not understand hiw we can get her to get it through her head that my husband has full custody and that wont change, even the judge said it would never change. And were planning on moving at the end of the year, i do not see that talk going very well. Ok rant over!!!