So I am a bm to 2 children and sm to my 6yr old daughter. Our household is pretty great no huge complaints except that we have to coparent with an awful bm. She is very petty and I go out of my way to make things easier for my sd. I am a stay at home mom and I have the kids before school after school, I go to all school functions take them to doctor appointments etc. I am that mom who is part of the PTA and does everything I can to make my children's life enjoyable especially since my sd lives in two separate households 2-2-3 and my bd 5 has to visit her bd during the summer for 1 month. I try and make our family somewhat normal. Well, we had decided after my bs 9mos was born that we were done having children. Just like every plan things get changed. We are expecting a new edition to the family which is great we just found out last night and as crazy as it sounds we are happy to become a family of 6. But right after we got the results from the trusty stick, my husband gets a text from his ex, saying she is pregnant and just told sd. We are happy for her and her husband. But the irony is quite ridiculous. and of course we will wait to tell our children until we find out the sex, (i just recently had a miscarriage 2 months ago). I just worry about that much change happening in sd's life. She is already in therapy, she goes weekly. What are your thoughts on this?