I've been with SO for 6 years and it hasn't been easy but recent events have made me want to split anyway. His 14 year old daughter, and 16 year old son hate me. The 16 year old with Asbergers has mad threats he wants to punch me and hurt me. I was told by the 10 year old the 16 year old comes home after school and locks himself and the dog in the bathroom so I told him not to do it that it is weird So recently I have become afraid of him and don't want to leave my room. I just feel bad for the 10 year old he loves me. Their mom abandoned them 2 years ago.

My 3 kids have grown up and moved out (my 18 year old is away at college). I got resentful of always picking up after his kids they are the biggest slobs eating in the living room and leaving dishes everywhere and making dinner I only have my own mouth to feed why should I do it every night. So I quit..Now he's resentful I don't help and wants to move near his mom..I'm not really sad.