For me, my DH knows about this site but doesn't seem to care. I guess he knows more about "a" site than this one in particular, meaning I don't think that he actually knows the site name or would be able to find it if he wanted to. But I've told him how I post on him and I've shared with him some of the responses I've gotten to my questions, and he seems to be all for it. He said he likes that I've found a place to release frustration and to talk to people in my same situation (because I really have no friends who have to deal with this kind of stuff).

Mine does. He has no problem with it -- but I imagine that has something to do with the fact that I really NEVER vent about him or the skids. It's the BM I have a problem with.

BB

You are not second best, you are not second class. Do not ever let anyone make you feel that way. - 2BLoved

Yes DH knows. And he doesn't mind at all. BTW I don't post just comment....as far as I know he has never looked at the site.

Sometimes I saw " I say on my stepmom site...."

I can understand if some men would be upset if there was major venting and saying nasty things about them/skids. But we all need someone to talk to, and none of us paying support can afford a therapist!

FDH knows about this site, and that I'm on it daily. Sometimes when we argue he knows I pull a lot of my debate info from here so he fights it...but in the end he admits me (and all the info from all of you wonderful people on here) are right!

"Live well, Love much, Laugh often."

mine does
and I will sometimes talk to him about some of the topics
and then we talk about it.. he has made the comment
about joining himself????

He used to hate it bc he felt it was replacing the conversations I should be having w him. Then he started reading and realized I use my blog to ground myself and organize my thoughts so I vent about the naggy stuff but come to him with the important stuff. Now he doesn't mind it... "Venting without the desire to look within and improve your situation is simply venting to hear yourself bitch."

..."I'm not mean, you're just a sissy."

No. I want to keep it that way but recently have been experiencing paranoia...

Mine doesn't know about the site and I don't think I would dream of telling him as he is already VERY defensive about the kids and telling him would probably just cause more harm than good.

BF knows and I don't know that he cares either way. However, there have been times that I ended up really sad after spending too much time on here and I will start to over think and apply what ifs to our situation... that's when he starts to roll his eyes and tell me that I need to stay off of the site. I don't think he knows that I post/comment on anything though.

"I have always loved the time before dawn because there is no one around to remind me who I am suppose to be, so it is easier to remember who I am." - unknown

BF knows and is supportive and loves the fact I have somewhere to go. I've read him my posts and the responses. He understands that this is my way of venting my frustrations therefore I'm not unintentionally saying something that is cruel to him or will hurt his feelings. He knows what BM is like first hand and if venting her keeps my stress level down and allows me to bring suggestions and ideas into our lives that help us cope with BM..he's all for it!

My DH did not like it at the beginning, but eventually realized that if it had not been for me venting here, we probably would not be together by now...now, he doesn't mind at all...He doesn't ask what I post...never checks...every once in a while I tell him of something I read here...and he can see things from a different perspective...

As I posted on another blog today or maybe a poll, I am not sure which, my DH does no about this site. In the beginning I was lurking on here so much reading other people's stories he started wondering what I was doing. He was getting curious and maybe suspicious. So I told him.

My DW knows I post here. Prob thinks I spend too much time here but I don't think she's snuck on and read it. She would be able to find me however, she took the picture! (hi honey!)

My Juicey knows. He doesn't care. I found this site from google when I was at home one night surfing the web. I was laughing and said let's put in "I hate the x wife"............sure enough, ST to the rescue! He's known about it from the beginning. I used to think he'd be okay as long as I didn't fuss about the skids to........but wrong.....he doesn't care what I fuss about as long as I leave him alone about it! LOL!

Mine knows and doesn't care, nor would he ever look for it. He sees it as a coping mechanism for me, and we have both noticed improvements on my part dealing with blended family issues. I don't scream and yell as much and I have more patience. I in turn, have also noticed a change in him and the way he deals with things (puts his foot down more!) since I rarely scream and yell.

So my posting here is a good thing all around.

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~

Mine found out, and it's been a wonderful thing. Its like his back burner to find out what's eating me. He even likes to peruse occasionally to see what wonderful things I've said about him.

DH knows I belong to some sort of "support group" but to my knowledge he doesn't know about what I post. I have on occasion mentioned something from a post I've read and then I have to explain myself, but I don't know if he's ever attempted to located ST on the web. (I keep my web history deleted so he can't track it.)
When I have mentioned something from ST, he's not too happy; he believes we should deal with our problems on our own - yeah, right!