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Just dont like my step sons

hunibuniboo1001's picture

It sounds horrible but I just cant help the way I feel towards them. My husband had joint custody so we have them live with us half the time. The oldest is 8 and the youngest is 5. I have no problem with the youngest but the oldest I find him very strange. I think he needs counselling or something but my DH has denied anything is wrong. He could be playing tag whilst giggling then in a split second he gets angry starts crying and then try's to attack me or my husband. Both boys are so spoilt and think they deserve anything they want. Also the oldest will cry the whole way through a film but for no reason. He's very similar to his mother which is not a good thing as she is crazy. He is also sneaky and I am expecting a baby girl next month and I do not trust him around her. Is it bad if I don't go on holiday with my husband when he has his children? I just cant stand it and I just don't want them to catch on that I hate them either cause its not their fault its just the way I feel.
Does anyone else feel the same?

hunibuniboo1001's picture

I'm glad I'm not the only one I just wish they didn't exist and me and my partner just had each other and our baby on the way. SS has thrown stuff at my bump which I was so upset about he also taps it and asks if that hurts and I just don't want him near me. He also try's to hug me sometimes and it just makes me feel repulsed. He never listens either and I think DH is far to laid back with them so they get away with stuff. When we were on holiday SS kept saying that he thought my baby was dead and that I could be walking down by the sea and a car would kill me and the baby.... I just think he's so strange. Sometimes too he will start crying for no reason and then when he speaks to his BM on the phone she thinks something awful is happening to her son. Apparently his BM used to act strange too and have bursts of anger and has overdosed in the past. Would you not go on holiday with your step children? I can see me taking my daughter away for the times that the step sons come to stay cause I just don't want to be around them. I feel like when they are naughty I need to tell them off but also that its not up to me as I'm not their parent its so difficult to know what to do.

Andie91801's picture

You are not alone. I don't like anything step or half. Tell DH installs webcam all over your house. Who knows what he will do when he's 18...scary!!!

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hunibuniboo1001's picture

Yeah he had my phone in his hand and threw it at my bump on purpose and laughed about it......