fiances toxic ex gf
Ok I don't know where to start.. My fiances ex gf who is the bm is a narrastic crazy woman.. They have separated almost two years and she still thinks she can do what she wants.. She tell my fiance that the kids can't go over there because they have too much homework and need to stay here.. If u want to see ur kids you have to come to my place.. My fiance won't say anything to her in fear she will take off with the kids.. She tells me oh your taking away from my family.. What family u left him for his dad.. I don't get why she says they are still a family even though they are not.. She thinks they can still spend time as a family and exclude me and the kids.. She threatens and uses the kids as an account excuse..my fiance wants what is best for his children but can't stand up to her because there will be hell to pay.. What do I do??
YOU don't do anything.
YOU don't do anything. Except maybe walk away from this 3 ring circus.
Since he isn't willing to go to court(I just reread your blog from May),he must not have an issue with the things BM is doing.
She will always be the mother
She will always be the mother of his children. They are bound together for the next decade or more. Asking for the kid to be back to do homework actually sounds decent.
Your SO needs a court order to set out visitation/custody and to set child support --- even if he can't afford it!
If she left your SO for his father? You have a complete cluster f- of a situation. Jerry Springer TV. I have no idea how you can raise so many kids in that environment to be healthy, productive citizens.
Your guy had no business
Your guy had no business dating, much less getting engaged before dealing with the all important issues of custody and visitation. And honestly, how do you expect to build a future with someone who already has so much dysfunction in his life - dysfunction that is already impacting you? Clearly this is not a healthy family. Why do you want to join it?