Let me start by saying I'm a 42years old who works hard for my family. Been married for 4 years and always paid for everything. My wife stays home sleeps till 10 or 11 every day. She has 2 kids by two different guys. I have one kid. From start of relationship my son took to my wife. Not same with her children did my best always spent equal on all kids. Tried do everything right. Well me and her son bonded. But me and daughter never have. Her daughter now 14 has bright blue short hair and where's boy clothes has a girlfriend. Yes 14 acts like know everything. Honestly makes me want throw up. Always tried do right thing's for girl nothing helped. Asked wife told me her daughter not looking for dad. Father's day comes around this year ask wife why either kid wished happy father's day. Want to remind my wife does not work and really doesn't keep up on house. My wife then told me I'm not their dad. Honestly makes me sick looking at little girl or boy. She wants be called Eli. Really love wife with all her flaws not that I'm perfect but she has issues. I want out marriage can't do it. Wife doesn't work trying get her get job. So we can separate. She looks about hour a week. How do I get out. I'm desperate.

Ps afraid she's going trash my house. When I tell her I will call cops she says I hit myself say you did it