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As suspected the drama is coming

Terry Bear's picture

As we all have stated, the SS is coming this weekend and his plan is to make waves, tidal waves most likely. SS1 posted on FB he can't wait till the weekend gets here. His BIO posting as his little sister said, Me either, but for a different reason LOL ... I know it is the ex because of her style writing. Not to mention she made the account for a child under 12 who she only allows to watch G rated disney movies and is against them seeing stuff on FB or any other media outlet... I have seen her post as the child for the last year now.. I know the difference between a 12 yr old and her. She also made it because I blocked her from my page and my hubbies page, but she can still see from the childs page... The lengths she goes to keep tabs on us is just insane.

I will need prayers, valuim and the will to not kill anyone by the time this is over... Head is pounding.. Need some words of encouragement, some Mom strength .... SOMETHING!!!!!!!

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Forgot to mention SS1 is not coming its SS2... and he is the drama one by far that is worse. He is the one who has called suicide threats every year for the last 7 years. He's also the one who goes to the mall so his mom can talk to my hubby from his phone so that I think it is SS2. (I know this because of the way he talks to each of them and I can tell when it's her).. Head games are her favorite thing.. Control is her main objective and she is not past having kids call for her as she does this A LOT in the past up until our move. OH the head ache I am getting.. Going to go clean something again LOL

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I know, because she has also got a twitter because hubby made one, she has made other social media accounts because he signed up for it because the kids were on it. She even went as far as to get a profile on Linkden? because he was getting out the military and was being scouted.. The funny thing is, they tell you who is watching your profile.. Hers was the only one that keeps showing up as anonymous .... Go figure.. Other people who are looking to hire you are not going to play those head games...

I am telling you, she is obsessed!!!!

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He's moving in because he can't live with his Mom and Step dad because "they got in a fight about cutting grass and the stepdad tried to choke him and pulled a gun on him because he said the F word to him. Long story about that too... UGHHHH

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Really??? God I hope it's not him... If he is a fan of webkins.... It might be..

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That is what happened... What are the chances??? It happened end of april but we found out in the begining of may....

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Thanks, I read through it, but he never responded back to anyone. His file says North East.. The one in question is South. But does sound so much alike that its eerie. Interesting though.. A lot of similar markers on that one.. Either way, that is one of my biggest issues with talking online, you never know who is reading... She could be there watching. Although, they do not know I found this site so I will be very careful when being on here once the spy is in house. Might have to see if I can get it on my phone. That I know he can't hack into.

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Yeah I know this one all too well also. She had both of their passwords and would go on to their accounts to get pictures of my hubby off my account, so I made a whole new FB and did not add them, actually blocked half of her family from it... Just went down the list of her family and blocked them all. But my son, who does not want to be in the middle of it still has them. He noticed a trend on the two kids pages and warned me that something was up. He said he will shut them down if he sees them do anything in front of him. He likes both of the Skids but he wont let them do things to me.. Love that kid, but wish he did not have to worry about this mess. But as he said, you are my Mom and you have NEVER done anything to deserve this.

Terry Bear's picture

It's heart breaking to know that we have to have a site, because we feel so crazy.. Don't get me wrong, I am thankful but I wish she would just drop dead so it can be over!

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I was thinking of doing the same thing, unless it is something that I strongly disagree with.... I will have to say something about that, but they wont know what i think or feel ever again.

still learning's picture

Logging onto Facebook is like stepping back into the halls of Jr High. No thanks, I said goodbye to it 6 mos ago. Drama has since gone from 10 to 1.

Terry Bear's picture

I agree totally.But it is the only way for me to interact with family that are not close enough to see. I have NO one here.. I have been moved away because of military for 14 years and most of the time it's quicker to just post a message, or see pics of family. Sad that something good got transformed into something so dreaded....

still learning's picture

I hear you. I was on it for many years for the same reasons military included. For me the cons started outweighing the pros when DH and I married, exes and steps started circling. A mutual friend of ours send me a screenshot of a group messages started by DH's ex that he was included in about how I was "jealous" of her and how she'd lost her best friend. I really felt like I'd been thrown back to the halls of high school. Note passing, games, backbiting...and so on.

Then my father passed away and family members literally went momentarily insane. Bullying each other online, publicly fighting over the little scraps he had left in this world. My block list was a mile long. I thought, why in the world am I putting myself in the center of this drama? I still keep in touch with those who are important to me. We do group texts, email messages etc. I get pics, not by the buttload like before but when something is really special it'll be sent my way.

I've tightened my little circle, reduced stalking and drama and quieted much of the noise in my head. I'm sure I've missed out on a lot of "important" events and photos but oh well. Now if people want to draw me into their issues they have to work a bit harder at it rather than tagging me in a nasty post.