Well BM spent Sunday night in the hotel.. We just found out that SD stayed with her best friend from Sunday until Thursday evening when SO got back into town and picked her up.. They were supposed to be staying in the house BM has spent weeks cleaning and painting.. This makes the 4th placed they have lived this year.. We ask SD why she didn't stay at that house with BM and she told us that there are no appliances in the kitchen, only one ac widow unit works and there is NO water heater!! We keeping waiting on her to text SO and ask if he will buy the appliances needed... She is going to have her feelings hurt because we have already put out too much money that was her responsibility to pay! (In January they were getting evicted and the place BM and SD were living, they had actually been there almost a year!.. This is not normal for BM. She will pay whatever is required to move in and stay until they get evicted.. Well SD has never been in one place for an entire year with BM. So We went to their house and made BM tell us where the landlord lived.. BM said we could give her the money and she would take care of it and SO laughed at her. Anyway we paid $1500... Well that didn't help because a few more months went by and they got evicted. We only paid that so SD could live somewhere for more than a few months. We wanted to send the $1,500 thru child support but it wouldn't have reached them in time and we doubt she would've caught up the rent!).. So our days of charity are over!! If she calls wanting us to supply appliances, SO is going to tell BM it's not our problem. I am calling Monday to make an appointment with a lawyer. If she can't take care of SD, then we will.