Well I took the first step in taking my life back today. I took the day off at the last minute and enroled my bio son 3 1/2 yrs old in a daycare learning center. I lost it this morning. My bio sons mom friended me on fb and I accepted. Mainly due to I dont post shit on their and I can record all communication about my son. She months sober and has to do supervised visits at her parents. Things are finaly going smoothly on that end. I get no child support or state assistance and I dont want it. My wife flips a lid aboit the frending and I calmly explain the reasons and she continues to get angerier. This is after being accused of cheating because I forgot the bait on the xounter last weekend when I went fishing. Then because I tucked in my shirt sunday and took my son to my dads ti get a scrap fridge and I shit u not I got accusef again. This is after I have put up with so much crap from my other two husbands(her boys) . I am done paying for their stuff and constantly getting stole from and lied to and just out right mistreated and disrepected. In two months i should have my own apartment for my son and I. Living here is affecting my health and now my sons ability to have a healthy home life. Thank you to everyone here who has responded and gave me advice. I am scared as hell for my future and my whole family is saying we should talk it over but I have tried. God knows I have tried. I seriously dont think they understand what its like here with her other husbands. I never thought I could loath and.get physical sick over two kids but thats how I am now everynight aftet work. Like I said thank you to everyon. Ill update when I can