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When BM claims Skids are depressed?

mentalmama24's picture

Has anyone dealt with a BM who claims that the skids are depressed because of what we (DH & Stepmom) are doing to them? BM has been recently claiming that SS is scared of DH and I and gets extremely depressed and 'torn' when he has to come back to us. SS has shown no signs of being depressed or upset. I know she is just using this as a strategy for the final trial. I guess my question is how far can she get with these claims?

Snowflake's picture

Bm in my situation was always telling us that the skids were depressed. Now mind you they were a toddler and and a small child at the time. I have two bio children with dh and both are well adjusted and happy children. And dh isn't half the Disney dad he was with skids at that time. My kids are actually -gasp- disciplined.

It could have been the string of men that bm was introducing to them.

Andie91801's picture

BM did claim that to my DH with SD because BM wanted to keep Skids to be with her. That woman has problem to be alone and had threatened to kill herself countless time since SD was 7. Anyway it was one of the tactic BM used to manipulate the Skids to get what she wanted.

DH dragged both BM and Skids to court and the judge ordered both BM and daughter to get psychiatric evaluation and they were not happy about it, especially the BM. But it was the only the thing he could do enable to see his children otherwise BM wouldn't let him see his children.

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