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What are some qualities you enjoy about your DH?

MidwestStepmom's picture

I've been reading a lot lately about dh that are the problem in these scenarios. It gets me thinking about my dh and what I enjoy about him. I am happy that BM has never had him by his an parts, dh hates Bm more then I do. For the most part dh will also punish ss when he is in the wrong. Dh is also a hard working man and has always provided for his family.

How about you?

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Redredwine's picture

He is kind and affectionate, willing to help anyone (sometimes to a fault), he has a great bod (I think), and a sexy deep voice. And he's willing to put up with me. Wink

EvilAngel's picture

My DH has the same problem! I've told him over and over to STOP being so damn nice to everyone! LOL He's the nice one and I am the mean one in this relationship! Clearly...

ChiefGrownup's picture

I could list 40 things but will limit myself to a couple things. First thing comes to mind is that he's so honest it's annoying. Like if you try to flirt with him he cannot say anything that isn't strictly true, cannot exaggerate or use hyperbole because it isn't "true" even if it's silly. Which suits me just great because my ex-husband was a big fat liar. So I love it that anything dh says to me I can take to the bank as the absolute truth as he understands it.

He is also super thoughtful and always finding things to do for me or provide for me. I'm gonna OD (see, I can exaggerate!) on all the treats he brings me. He will always plan a super thoughtful date night like ballet tickets, etc.

IslandGal's picture

I love my SO because he stands up for me and supports our relationship. It did take counselling for him to see the light, but once he did..boy! did he step up.

He loathes BM with a passion and wouldn't spit on her if she was on fire. He loves his kids and supports them financially. He gets along with my bio-kids. He is an excellent chef and loves to cook. He also loves to sing and play his guitar. He is affectionate, kind and considerate not to mention, an awesome lover (we are completely in sync in the bedroom).

He's a big passionate bear and can be sensitive and deep. Tells me he loves me every single day, rings me every lunch time.. I adore this man!!!!

EvilAngel's picture

I love the way my DH loves me. He would go above and beyond to make me happy. He's a great provider and a very hard worker. He's very intelligent and can do just about anything he sets his mind to. He is absolutely gorgeous and has the most KILLER blue eyes. (I am a sucker for blue eyes)

Aniki-Moderator's picture

My DH has a wonderful, deep voice. Sam Elliot's voice is similar. I could listen to him talk for HOURS about anything. He's kind, gentle, funny, strong, sexy, hardworking, authoritative, intelligent, and if he can't fix something, it's not fixable!

I was...fairly naïve and inexperienced when it came to sex. My previous partners were selfish and insensitive. Frankly, I NEVER had the Big O with any man except my DH. He's the only man who has actually cared about ME being satisfied, and makes sure I get several turns before he does.

He does have kinda ugly feet, though... Wink

EvilAngel's picture

My DH has a sexy voice too! I remember one of our first dates...he was talking to me about contact patch. (something to do with racing) I had NO idea what he was talking about but was just intrigued by his voice!

Aniki-Moderator's picture

I confess...sometimes he's talking about something that's waaaaay over my head (especially work stuff) and I sit there and just listen to his voice with zero comprehension...and start smiling. Every time, he asks "what are you smiling about?" and gets a little embarrassed when I say "You. I love listening to you talk."

If my alarm clock was programmed with his voice telling me to wake up, I'd hit the snooze button 100 times! LOL

misSTEP's picture

My DH does whatever he can to make me laugh as much as possible. He is so funny.

He can out-cook most restaurants. Absolutely delicious EVERYTHING.

He is honest almost to a fault.

He rocks in bed.

He was never much of a Disney Dad and once he left BM for good, he had his balls firmly in the right place. He put up strong boundaries to try to shield me from her craziness (No Contact Order).

Tuff Noogies's picture

he's a genuinely good guy. he's got a heart as big as the hood of my car. and it pisses me off to no end when that wonderful heart feels pain. he is a hard worker and a wonderful provider. he takes much pride in that.

he gets teary when he sees or hears something that reminds him how much he loves me. he welled up the first time he heard the brad paisley song "perfect storm". he hides that softness from everyone else, but lets me see it. i *am* his safe place.

but he's also my Wolverine (as in X-men). he's strong, he's gruff, he's tough, he's moody. he's a beer drinking, truck driving, cussin', man's man who's not afraid to get down and dirty and work with his hands. but when it comes to those he cares about, or matters of right or wrong, you know exactly where he stands.