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BM's Greed Knows No Boundaries

CompletelyPuzzled's picture

Just received the following text from BM (Why she sent it to me instead of DH, I have no idea): "Completely, the girls told me that DH has a new job. I know that his new profession makes more money than he used too. I will be bringing that up in the hearing next month. How can you be married to such a loser? He barely supports his kids. You better not have any with him."

Too be honest, I laughed at this. DH did get a new job. And, she is really fuming because she is afraid she will lose custody next month and her meal ticket will disappear. I love how she commanded me not to have kids. It tells me the SDs have been listening in to my conversations with DH. LOL. I love that they misunderstood and have their mom fuming.

The funny thing about all of this is that her husband works at McDonalds. And she told my DH, he is about 10,000 in the arrears on his child support. My DH missed one payment this year when he switched jobs. I can't wait for our hearing. BM's lawyer dropped her and she is going Pro Se. It should be interesting...

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Glassslipper's picture

been there done that, LONG LONG AGO! when we first got married we would talk about "potential" baby names because we knew SD was a blabber and would repeat it, just to confuse BM. lol
(DH is fixed, got fixed while married to BM)
LMAO

DaizyDuke's picture

Ew. Why does BM have your number and why is she texting you? I'd be blocking that shit STAT!

HungryEyes's picture

Yes start rubbing your belly and pretending to look at baby stuff. Pin a bunch of cute baby ideas to your pinterest.

Also - BM once tried to control what types of birth control I'd be on so that I wouldn't get knocked up. The depths of greed and control they have - you're right - it's insane.

I'd love to be in that hearing.

HungryEyes's picture

This is how

Texts DH received while we were dating about 5 minutes after BM met me and realized that I was a HUGE upgrade from her.

"What kind of birth control is SHE on? SHE better have something good and you need to use a condom. You should not be having any children with HER! I heard from a friend that went to HS with her that SHE might be on the implant. If so, remember thats how I got pregnant with skid2 so you had better be using a condom and SHE had better have her own bc too!"

Yeah. That happened. DH had been together like 3 months. Our kids had only met the week before casually at a baseball game. I ran into her kids at a waterpark. I had my kids. The kids were excited to see 'their new friends' There was no where to hide. She was 9 months pregnant and waddled over to me and let it spill that DH had filed bankruptcy in his past and she was pregnant because she was 'allergic to all forms of birth control' and she hoped I had a good job and would be supporting myself because DH sure couldn't do it and blah blah blah. She followed this all up with 'You're on birth control, right? What kind?' I just blinked a couple times and noped my butt out of the situation. But she text him within 5 minutes with the statement above.

She has since apologized for her 'crazy pregnancy hormones' but she still has all kinds of questions about my reproductive plans.

I have none.

tiny kitten's picture

"And I hope you get your tubes tied. Since we're making reproductive suggestions for each other."

robin333's picture

She sounds lovely :jawdrop: definitely time to drop suggestions about expecting. Let us know how court goes!

zerostepdrama's picture

WTF this bitch is crazy. Did she expect you to reply back agreeing with her?

BM used to text DH telling him she was going to text me and warn me about him. Ummm okay... whatever...

Tuff Noogies's picture

one that's fun - while watching TV w/ skids, and hear a name said, say "ooohhh! that's a pretty name!!" and pat your belly.... walk away from the computer or your phone, and have baby center pulled up, or google "nursery ideas".

and plz block her from your phone, too.

SM12's picture

Depneding on how old the kids are...you could get some paint samples and lay them around and discuss which color you would want to paint the baby room...

I have to admit I was a bit of a shit because BM used to hvae teh kids spy on us as well. I left real estate listings all over the house and even "accidentally" put on in the kids backpack. BM was constantly trying to dictate what we do on our time with and without the kids. She was always texting the MSS and pumping him for info WHILE he was at our house. I just decided to give her something to chew about for a while.

dood's picture

Block the bitch.... Seriously, why would you even allow that to happen again (or ever).