I am taking a poll.....

When dealing with visitation and the custodial parent's family who's responsibility is it to inform of what the orders actually read as far as visitation goes?
A. The CP should inform their family of the times the NCP will have the kid and the NCP tell their family when CP has the kid.
B. The NCP should inform both the CPs family and their own as to when their time is with the kid
C. The CP should inform both their family and the NCPs family
D. None of the above

Ok...now while you are thinking about it or have already picked your answer here is the "why you got to be so rude" moment.
DH was asked by BMs mother about getting the SS a few hours early to go on vacation and she says she tried to plan it for BMs time and made these plans in February (Ok if you read my post about being livid with DH about agreeing to let him go early just hear me out...I was mad about something totally different and this iced that cake). Well, we are taking it upon ourselves to print a calendar for the next year and do the following:
1. Highlight all our weekends, Holiday's, and such per the CO.
2. Print out and hand to BMs mom, a copy of the Holiday schedule, summer visitation portion of the CO, and ways to get in touch with DH if she should want to make plans for summer early again.

Now, BM apparently thinks this is "RUDE" of us to do. Not sure how it is RUDE to lay out the timeline of when we will have SS and she will have SS but hey whatever...I didn't buy the tickets for that crazy train so she can board it and ride it out herself. We are still doing this as BMs mom is at least trying to make things on BMs time and not DHs...showing that she supports the kid having a relationship with both parents. DING DING DING...WINNER!!! this is PASing at its finest. The crazy BM thinks by us doing this we are being rude but in actuality its that we are not playing the hand she dealt us to where she has total control. haha! PAS all you want but not everyone has to be invited to your pity party!