heaven!

Calypso1977's picture

apparently fiance and SD14 had some sort of blowout this past weekend while we were away, over text. tehy are currently "not speaking" visits were canceled this week, and she is away next week on a school trip. im really hoping this lasts awhile....

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

Some little princess didn't get her way, obviously! Woot! Time for you and the fiance to make some plans!

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

I'm over here praying that HHB manages to stay out of trouble this summer! You know how it will go if she gets into anything big...BM will want to send her to us again or HHB will want to run away from her punishment, DH will say the girl has no place to go, etc. So far, she has pretty much stayed away since Christmas when she moved out...only came by a couple of times to get stuff. I praying she stays away!

Calypso1977's picture

nope...but he made comments about what a liar and manipulator she is. so far silence. and he also made a comment that he may be hearing from BM's lawyer as i guess it was bad enough of a fight that he thinks tehy may try to file to take away visitation. She wont win, parents are allowed to have fights with their kids, but at this point, he wont fight it anyway. I asked if he made threats to her or her mother and he said no, so they wont have much to stand on.

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

Makes me wonder if you were a topic in this fight. "I don't want HER around!" These entitled brats who think they have say in their parents' lives. Oh wait, that is what some of these BM's are teaching these kids! Dads are not dads any more...they are ATMs, babysitters, travel agents, etc. Basically, whatever the "royals" want, the "royals" get...or man, they are going to make "daddy" pay!

Calypso1977's picture

yeah, who knows. im pretty sure she hates me but i dont care. but i am very sad for my fiance that she's put him in the middle like this. i know alot of it is PAS, btu at the same time, the kid is 14 almost 15. old enough to make up her own mind and her mother always seems to think she can make her own choices all the time - except on the issue of whether she should like me and our home i guess! then she needs mommy to protect her.

father's day should be interesting next month.

ChiefGrownup's picture

Wow, Calypso, that's quite an admission by your DH. It adds up to a very sad story for him. But him facing the truth is so much better than any other alternative.

Calypso1977's picture

yes, this is the first time he verbalized it to me. he's agreed with me before when ive said it, but he actually said it himself this time. and its spot on.