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ok so i cant stand SS

biomomof1's picture

ok so i have had my SS for 5 years and a couple months now he will b 6 in less than 1 week... is there anyone else that can not stand their Step kids... i get that BM is always going to talk bad about me i get it and over that... but now its getting to were he is acting out towards mine and DH kid (he is 2) .... and DH always lets it go is there anyone else that goes thru this... i need advise to know what it is that i need to do in this situation bc im going crazy .... thanks in advance

Rags's picture

No need to hate the Skid. If he is abusing his little brother than bring consequences for his behavior that are escalatingly painful for him. If your DH will not step up then you do it. Give DH clarity that his prior mistake spawn will not cause issues for your child or the family and if DH does not deal with it immediately, constantly, and effectively then you will.

He has a choice. Step up and get the discipline of his spawn done before you have to or get out of your way and STFU.

IMHO of course.

Good luck.