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verysad's picture

So my SO was an ass all day. Cold and distant. Cool, I'm already looking for a place. He and devilspawn can marinate, IDGAF.
Well tonight my BD had a spelling bee at school. He came and is being all nice since then. I'm being polite but distant. Devilspawn comes to our room and asks what day she is flying back from a trip we were all going on. She asks me..crickets. Eff u. He asks me and I just walk away. Disrespect sucks doesn't it???
Side note: we were paying for her ticket. It was an adult trip his mom set up for us and her and her husband. Spawn threw such a huge fit she got invited. LMFAO @ the thought I'm spending a dime on her...

verysad's picture

Yes it was an adult trip. My 3 kids were not going. It was supposed to be 4 of us going to the Daytona 500. Spawn pitched a fit and got invited, then invited her boyfriend. In retrospect I was being an ass by going without my kids when she was going.

verysad's picture

Its all moot though as they are both nuts. She can be however she wants, I don't have to subject myself to it. I am really at peace.

verysad's picture

Initially when it was his mom, step dad, he and I? Sounded fun, she is VERY nice and kind to me. His step dad is cool too. Never overstep, accepted my kids and love them as their own. Too bad devilspawn was allowed to be an unchecked ass since birth. Grandma explained today that her son has told her in the past, sorry won't come around cause you're mean to devilspawn. If he does that to his mom? I have no shot.

CantKeepDoingThis's picture

Oh, before HHB moved out, DH kept telling her that one day soon we would take her on a cruise with us! I would be like "WTH? That is supposed to be OUR time to get away as a couple and do ADULT things!" I would also remind him that neither of my bios were ever invited on a cruise with us! I was full ready to not be able to find any money for any kind of vacation until she was good and gone! Don't have to worry about that now that DH is seeing her true colors...he doesn't want to take her on a nice vacation any longer.

I still remember one of the trips for one of BS20's football camps. HHB threw a fit that she wasn't going with us that weekend. Why, I don't know...it was a football camp! The plan was that HHB was going to sleep on the floor, since she was the tag along...DH and I would get one bed, and BS20 would get the other...because this was a big school, and he surely didn't need to be hurting all over from sleeping on the floor the day of the camp (he is not a small guy). Before all was said and done, HHB whined do bad, DH opted to sleep on the floor and I had to share a bed with HHB. That only lasted for about 2 hours until I went to NOT sleep in the chair because there were no more blankets, the room was freezing, and HHB is the bed hog from hell (this was a QUEEN sized bed). I let DH have it the next morning, and told him if he ever did that crap to me again, he wouldn't be getting any for at least a solid year!

verysad's picture

Oh ya no way in hell I'm going. Disrespect in my house, he tells me it is what it is? OK then. Hell no I'm not going on a trip with devilspawn.
HAHAHA my autocorrect now recognizes devilspawn