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Update on ss the underwear thief.

MidwestStepmom's picture

Bm texted a picture to dh this morning. It was a picture of MY underwear that they found in his backpack. I am so pissed!!! I just wore these so I know the timeline. After getting his ass handed to him this weekend for stealing mine and BMs underwear, sneaking out his DS AND stealing small electronics from our house - he went forward with taking another pair And took it home with him.

I'm so angry, embarressed and I don't even know what to do. My dh usually takes ss side on these issues, but even he said he might give up his weekend this weekend. He wants to wait until ss has completed therapy until letting him come back.

SugarSpice's picture

its good that therapy is in progress. this type of behavior is worrisome. at least your husband is addressing this. most fathers put their heads in the sand.

MidwestStepmom's picture

His responses to everything is "I honestly don't know" or "I don't feel comfortable talking about it".

MidwestStepmom's picture

I tossed his room, dumped all his drawers and toy boxes. I left it that way and he will have to clean it next time he is here. I'm making a statement that better not expect any privacy and we will find everything.

To your previous comment. This is not normal icky male behavior. He is stealing his motherly figures underwear. Bm is like 300 pounds, so i assume her underwear is not pretty. I only wear comfy underwear, hate thongs