Wow. Just wow
I realize DH is just pissing me off.
We have an arrangement.. I wash, dry and fold. He puts away. Magically, all of his is put away and my is still in the basket.
DS and I start getting leaves raked up in back yard. Massive rain lately and the leaves are plastered to the ground. Filled up the bin. Will be finishing after bin is picked up Monday. I come in, BS is putting the bin away. DH goes out there to tell BS what to do and how and said he would do the bin. I heard BS say, my mom told me to, so I'm finishing up. Normally Bs just comes to ask, but I was really clear.
Now, DH has decided it has to be done today. But of course, not with us since Bs and I finished up and are waiting. He has to finish it. Fine, go for it.
DD hasn't been feeling good. Was laying in bed most of the morning. bS did his chores, his room and helped me. DD didn't. DH gets off the Xbox and tells her she can play. Knowing damn well it goes against my rules. But we can't reward BS right?!?!?? I had DD go get her stuff done. Apparently she told DH she hadnt done her stuff. He said its ok.
He slept for almost 22 hours. Got up at 1pm today and has said 5 words to me. I'm continueing on with my day like he is just not here. I won't play this game. He can pout. I'm tired of him making sure SGD and everyone knows he likes her best. The sad part... It's always at other kids expense
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He might be molesting kids
He might be molesting kids and your worried about laundry and video games????
No. I just meant he is being
No. I just meant he is being really pety.
No. Just not no but hell no.
No. Just not no but hell no. This wasn't called for at all.
If I believed he had touched her, I would be gone. Not only would I be gone, I would have called CPS and the cops. I don't play with that. I could stay at my brothers for a week.. Then they are with BF and then I could figure more out. I realize I can't change this.
The exit plan will take time.
You spoke of him looking for
You spoke of him looking for hours for school supplies and spent alot of time looking for underwear for dd and sgd. Plus has an over the top love of sgd.
Read her blogs from yesterday and you will see it. Something is not right here big time. Denial? I am u sure but when you read the complaints about her husband to the girls, something is really fucked up. Laundry would be the least of my concerns.
Last nights post. DH has been
Last nights post.
DH has been working on DD to get her to Aline with him. I don't believe it is physical, nether does my therapist who has met with everyone. But he is making "sides" or trying too. He has decided martial fight with her. And told me the other day he was looking for underware for her online. Then decided it was weird and something for me to take care of. I told him just don't.
Hollow, go read the last
Hollow, go read the last posts.
Yeh. Go read it. I KNOW
Yeh. Go read it.
I KNOW something is seriously wrong. And there is no fixing any of this. But I don't think it has gone illegal. Just really really mentally fucked up
Where did you all get the
Where did you all get the sexual abuse claim come from?
I get the feeling that he is trying to drive a wedge between the OP and her daughter. He's also trying to make her kids hate one another.
There was a reply last night
There was a reply last night that said signs are there. I said I would keep an eye out. Now, somehow it is 100% he is. It's like the telephone game.
If there is even a 1% chance
If there is even a 1% chance of it, then you take action and take it seriously.
Do you honestly believe it is
Do you honestly believe it is possible??? Because your right, any doubt at all... And that is too much. I've been looking at this as he is trying to make her his SGD replacement. His new team member to be his emotional support.
Just a few signs below.
Just a few signs below. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
A person who spends his spare time doing things with children and not adult friends.
This person seems to always have a special child friend. And this friend might change from time to time
They will tell children to keep secrets and not tell anyone of certain activities.
Someone who gives money to children or buys them expensive gifts for no known reason.
A person who is overly affectionate with children. This might include kissing, tickling, hugging, wrestling or touching a child even when the child tells them to stop.
I don't know what your DH is
I don't know what your DH is up to, but looking for little girl undies for hours and hours online day after day is strange. Do you have access to what he uses to go online? You might be surprised, or not, to see what all this guy views for hours after hours day after day while he's laying around in bed. No one I don't think wants to falsely suspect or accuse the of any wrong doing, we just want you to keep an open mind to it and not be blind to the possibility of something.
I will say this. All of it
I will say this. All of it you have made me open to the possibility. I'm watching.... Very closely. And DD now has a counseling session on Monday.
"like he isn't here." <<<<
"like he isn't here." <<<< Sweetie pie, he ISN'T here. He's not being a husband. Doesn't sound like he's capable of it. Does he marry women in order to have a chance for little girls to be around? He gets a tremendous rush from pampering little girls. What about marriage gives him a rush? The chance to pout?
This. I love the term "mom
This. I love the term "mom radar." You thought something was off when you started posting last night. At this point you know something is off.
Quit letting your DD spend time with him alone. Don't let him align with her. Listen to her - especially when she says she is uncomfortable around him.
^^^This^^^
^^^This^^^
There is this. But some of
There is this. But some of the stuff is weird. I have a son and a daughter. I don't spend anymore time looking for any of their clothes then need be. Underware??? Walk into Target, find their size, and the type they like... Done. He spends more time then that. Way more time. It's way more the prefers girls to boys. He prefers SGD over anyone. To include his own bio. And he has spent more time with DD then me over the last week.
One way or another this shit is over.
Dzty....hours looking on the
Dzty....hours looking on the internet looking for girls underwear????? For a daughters d a step grand daughter????? I really doubt your DH does that.
IDK if you will see this but
IDK if you will see this but I have a question...OK, more than 1.
Is it possible your DD may share this info with her BioDad or another relative? If she would, do you think he would call CPS and the kids would be taken from you and placed with him?
Your DD sees a counselor, they are supposed to report. Do you realize that if anyone suspects something and they would report it, the kids would be taken from you and you would have to earn them back?