I'm done playin
I'm new here,, but not without skid problems,, been married 30 years, with skids (mom had custody)...currently: SD 35, SS 37,, Our son 25. No problems w/SS.. SD is another story.. SD lives in a different state than the rest of us.. I have a great long distance relationship w/her.. Phone conversations every Sat or Sun.. she, always talking dirt about her BM and SF and anyone else she can blame for her unhappiness. I just say "I'm sorry u feel that way" I NEVER trash her Mom or SD, its coming from a problem "inside" Mostly got along,, as long as we were not in the same house for more than 2 days.. I did all the "right stuff" let dad discipline , completely included them in the birth of "our" son... Included SD in every weekly update of the progress of the coming baby.. (What to expect when expecting) SD was 11 then..that was THEN, NOW!! SD at 35, its very difficult being around her, she has Mommy issues, Daddy issues, Step Mom issues, Step Dad issues, half brother issues. She is jealous.. I've always kept my mouth shut because, we had a rule...:"Never spend more than 2 nights at her house" I can deal with that.. even then its not easy, she barks, she is very difficult to be around..she tries to keep the grandkids from having a relationship with me.. I 'm just quiet, which is NOT ME , but for 2-3 days i can be compliant... WELL, shit hit the fan.. We were driving and my SD was "texting" while driving w/ my granddaughter, me and my hubby in the car, I said " Please dont text and drive" She blew!! Said "I will pull off at the next exit and drop your ass off, you can find your own way home" I said (trying to give her an out) "Was it really necessary to talk to me that way" (remember we have a 30 year relationship") she said "WELL U PISSED ME OFF" so after that i kept my mouth shut.. we ended up renting a car and leaving... How do I feel ?? She kicked me to the curb "literally" after 30 years of really treating her special! I dont know how to react.. HELP.. I know i will no longer walk on eggshells with her.. Thing are gonna be real from now on., whether she likes it or not... I'm done PLAYIN
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Give her hell, she's a grown
Give her hell, she's a grown ass woman and should never be texting and driving much less talking to you like that.
Dear Step Aside, for so many
Dear Step Aside, for so many years, at least 15 yrs i have kept my mouth shut. This is not the first time she has attacked me.. Cooking bacon one time, I wanted to do mine in the micro, she said" "well i just cleaned the micro, if u get it dirty your gonna piss me off>>>..She doesn't keep a clean house, I just said "if i get your micro dirty i will clean it.". Her X husband always said " Your damned if u do and your damned if you dont.....she is just bitchy.. Im tired of it.. I am so sad because her dad "hurts" and he truly knows how she is, but what is he supposed to do, he told her how she is, but will that change her.. MY thought,, if you have all these issues at 35,, time to seek a professional who can help.....
If she talks bad about BM to
If she talks bad about BM to you then she probably does the same about you to her BM. She seems like she is a nasty ungrateful person. If you were riding in the car with a friend and asked that friend to stop texting while driving and that friend threatened to put you out on the curb, would you still continue to be her friend? Your Skids are adults so treat her like she is one. People don't stay friends with people who treat them like crap. Unless she apologizes for her rude outburst then cut her off.
Its been 3 weeks now,, her
Its been 3 weeks now,, her dad did call her, and did go off on her , telling her what a bitch she was...how she goes off on people, NOT just SM but many other people too..., Xmas is right around the corner, how do I call and say "Merry Christmas" to the :Kids:(at the very least) I dont know what to do?? The kids have nothing to do with this...