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O/T: DH has pic of topless woman on his phone

Dontcallmemom's picture

Will post in comments, please read, it's a fun one (I think)...

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Dontcallmemom's picture

Tell me I'm not crazy here. DH showed me this picture of some drunk whore at a bar who flashed him and his buddies at his friend's bachelor party over TWO YEARS AGO! DH and I don't drink, so he can't use the excuse that he was drunk when he took the pic. I knew about this picture, but I thought one of his other friends took it (which I guess is still a possibility, he could've just texted it to my DH), but the thought that he sat there and took a pic of this nasty woman's boobs really pisses me off. On top of that, it's still been on his camera roll ever since (OVER TWO YEARS).

I told him to delete it. He said "nope, I don't have to" or something along those lines. I told him I didn't like it and wanted it gone. Then he brought up looking at porn, which I know he does, probably a lot of men do, but I don't necessarily need to hear about it. He thought that the fact that this was a real life pic was what was bothering me. Maybe it is, maybe not, it doesn't matter, it bothers me, DELETE IT!

Finally, I just told him that he wasn't respecting my feelings or something like that and he said he'd delete it. He's said that to me before when we've argued about things, so I'm glad he realized that whoever's right or wrong, doesn't matter so much as the fact that him having that picture bugged the crap out of me.

What do you all think? Was I being unreasonable? I thought that other women might agree, but maybe I am being too much of a prude. It doesn't really matter at this point, but I thought it might be an interesting topic for discussion.

Justme54's picture

Ask DH if he would mind you having a pic on your phone of a stud who is hung like a horse. If you know what his reply would be, there is your answer.

No saint's picture

I wouldn't mind him taking the picture; but him still having it 2 years later would be HELL!!!