I Knew DH Would Eventually Spill the Beans about his Conversation with Twit
And he did. Seems she called to see if we changed our minds about her dinner offer....she was having "Thanksgiving Dinner" just for us at 1:00 p.m. that day!
Now, THAT is awfully darn early for a big dinner, which usually is served around 4 p.m. or so. Seems that she told DH she was having it early because she had someplace to be later in the afternoon. [Obviously another one of her sit down, have a turkey sandwich and leave in 1 hour or so so she doesn't have to bother with us.] I bet that didn't sit well with DH. He had already told her days before we wouldn't be coming to her place on Sunday, but as I said, she needs to be able to tell all those "friends" how she, the poor suffering Twit, had to have TGD early because of me.
He said she didn't know if her "babies" were coming but we were welcome.
Guess I was the root of all evil when he declined...again. He also told her he was not happy about her and the Thank You note she told him she was going to send me. Oh, she wrote one, she claims, it's right on her desk but she hasn't gotten around to mailing it out (in her rural area that means you walk out to your mail box, put it in and put the flag up). She would try to send it out Monday or so. DH told her not to bother, it had been over 5 weeks and not to bother. He was teed off because he had told me one was coming and she let him down again.
And needless to say, she cried, poor victimized Twit, how could he do this to her when she just wanted to be with family. What a crock of carp she passed out. DH has her number and didn't buy it.
Me, I'm glad that she is proving to him more and more just how uncaring and selfish she is. I didn't say anything to him about it, just let him talk. But I could see and sense that he was disturbed by her actions.
Now, I am going to watch for the right moment to talk to him about how he doesn't want to let her have any POA over him (if I am not around). Keep in mind, this is the daughter that had to be told by her husband that she should let her father know she was going to have surgery [the infamous GB surgery].
Yep, you're right Cat. And,
Yep, you're right Cat. And, re the Thank You note, she couldn't use the old must have gotten lost in the mail line she tried last time. She is digging her hole deeper and deeper.
I knew when he told me about Twit sending me the thank you note it wasn't going to happen. That was just Twit talk to DH so he would think she was oh so nice. In the last year his eyes have and are being opened wide.
Sad thing with Twit is that her attitude is so what - that's just the way she is and all should accept it.
Odd how the story actually
Odd how the story actually changed from you not being appreciative for the 'Thank you' note she sent to - (drum roll) "It's still on my desk." She IS digging deeper. One thing you mentioned a while back, she'd not particularly intelligent. And being a narcissist she would think she is smarter than everyone else, believing that she can pull the wool over their eyes. This includes your DH and must even more frustration for him. Too bad he will never be able to pull a reality check on her.
Oh Sandye - it was the
Oh Sandye - it was the Mother's Day card that I was suppose to be appreciative of....the one that after she found that DH picks up the mail, must have gotten lost.
This thank you note is something she told DH back in Oct. she was going to send to me. Guess he told her that I helped him pick out the flowers he dropped off after her tramatic GB surgery. I bet DH was waiting for that to show up in the mail for me and it never did.
And, after the mother's day card fiasco she can't use the "it got lost in the mail" excuse again. She had to think about something else. Now, do I think she had a note for me on her desk ready to go? Heck no. That was just an excuse for DH. And frankly I don't care to even hear from her. I helped DH pick out flowers because, well, I am just like that. You know how guys are about that kind of stuff.
Funny how karma works. Twit started off with the MD card to get, zing me, and it certainly has backfired on her. Big Time!
Sandye, one thing Twit is is
Sandye, one thing Twit is is quick on a response. She always has a quick response for something, but that doesn't mean the responses make sense or hold water. What she does is give a response and if you question it she bullies you into accepting what she is saying. What happens is one just gets frustrated with trying to reason with her and you let it stand and she figures she won, at least in her warped mind she has. You know what they say, you can't reason with crazy.