Happy Thanksgiving and Meeeerrrrrrry Christmas, BM!!
Court date set for 12/15 to get daycare dropped that she hasn't used in well over five years. Of COURSE it won't be retroactive and therefore I predict the BM will delay the court date.
Oh and the fact that OSS moved out in August. . . He's 18, but here in stupid pro-GUBM world, CS goes mandatory till age 21. So therefore, OSS can work a few hours a week between pot smoking sessions making smoothies on a food truck and live at his Uncle's house, yet BM will still get paid CS for him.
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The latest attorney brought
The latest attorney brought out that he should NEVER have had daycare rolled into automatic CS payments through CSEU. That he should have demanded RECEIPTS (actual ones, not the ones the BM presented to the court showing her MOTHER was the daycare worker and getting high prices for child care)
But then again Chef TRUSTED the BM. . . (insert eyeroll)
As far as Chef sabotaging it? There's still time left before the 1st courtdate. I don't put ANYTHING past Chef.
Talked about that. It would
Talked about that. It would involve LENGTHY court and HUGE legal bills per the attorney. Chef said NO!
I think it's worth it, but Chef likes to OVERPAY CS in exchange for no contact.
And when are you going to do
And when are you going to do something about this other than complain on this site?
Oh yeah, that's right.....NEVER.
I have no sympathy. You've been enabling this behavior for years.
Let me know when you can hire
Let me know when you can hire that hit man and I'll stop venting on this site that is for venting.
Darkstar has had a rough year
Darkstar has had a rough year so that's why she's lashing out.
It used to be so easy back in
It used to be so easy back in the old days before all this forensic stuff came out. I watch "Forensic Files" and they found ARSENIC in someone's ashes who had been cremated.
bwahaha!
bwahaha!
I have had a rough year, but
I have had a rough year, but that's NOT why I'm lashing out.
I am sick and tired of people that are in situations of their own making that do nothing except complain about it. There are options out there, you could do something about it, but you CHOOSE not to. People get stuck in situations, true, but then you make a game plan and get the hell out of dodge! To say that there's nothing you can do ever and your stuck in this for the rest of your life is simply.not.true.
I so much as said the same thing to LuckyMomme before she tucked her tail and ran off the site. I see her respond once in a while, but I don't think she posts.
My home and heart is open to ANYONE that wants to make a change for the better in their lives. Change being the key word here.
And the snarky comment about the blog police is way off base. I never said OP doesn't have a right to post. But, if you put half the effort into getting OUT of the situation as you do complaining about it, you'd be halfway to freedom by now.
In-my-not-so-humble-opinion
Oh sure there's lots I could
Oh sure there's lots I could do about it.
Just up and leave and go into foreclosure for 75K or so after having to file bankruptcy back in 2001 due to my old job black balling me from getting a job because I was a gov't fraud whistleblower. That and the REAL economic collapse due to 9/11 as well as Clintoon's policies.
Took me this long to get back on my feet. No way am I going to take another financial bath for a man just because he is violent and would most likely kill me if I told him to get out. Yeah I could shoot him in "self defense" and hope NYS courts buy it. Or I could wait for the police who couldn't catch a cold to come during one of those rages.
And spare me the "happiness is more important than material things" speech. I've lived in my car with my kids when they were little trying to escape idiots. I went nine years without dating. Yep I should have gone 19 years rather than fall for the "bait and switch." Don't I know it.
I guess I'm just one of those old hags who would rather just deal with the stupidity and who has no "bridge club" to vent at as in days of yore.
I'm not 40 years old and can just start over again. If you don't like my "complaining about stuff I can change" oh well. You can just ignore my posts. I hope it makes you feel better to "take people to task" about their "incessant whining and inaction."
Oh FFS.....I didn't run Lucky
Oh FFS.....I didn't run Lucky off this site, there were plenty of people that shared my opinion. And I never said I was proud of it either, so you can stop putting words into my mouth thankyouverymuch.
And I never said "just up and leave" AGAIN putting words in my mouth. I do believe I mentioned something about a game plan???? Even if it takes a few years to plan and implement at least it's SOMETHING. Heck, you still go on vacations with this guy! Since you've mentioned the violence.....what happens if/when he gets violent with you in the home that you share?? I truly truly hope that never happens, that would be a horrible thing.
Look at PFS (positively fourteenth street? or something). She has mentioned a game plan, it's been a long time in the works and from what I've read, it's going to take a while to implement. But at least it's taking charge of your life!
You can too start over, if you want to. Even if you don't have a support system at home, the people here at least would give you gobs of support!!
So trash me because I believe that women should stand up for themselves? That we should command and demand respect and equality in our relationships? That I should just ignore her posts instead of encouraging her to get out of this horrible situation (albeit a little harshly)?
Wow, what a HORRIBLE person I am!! Sheesh, you guys puzzle me sometimes.
**sigh**
**sigh**