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What did I get myself in to...

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Bm's uncle died yesterday. One of the first calls that the son made was to dh. No one in bm's family is on speaking terms with her.

This uncle has been kind to dh and ss, giving dh some inheritance money for SS (from bm's dad).

Anyway... In a moment of compassion, when bm's sister called crying I told her she was welcome SMTP stay with us if she came out for the service as she lives out if state. She was thankful.

But now I'm second guessing myself.

Dh asked me to attend any service with him and SS. Now we've invited bm's sister. She will probably want to attend ALL of the events related to the events. I am not doing that. I will attend the standard memorial.

I'm sure bm's suster will want to do everything. I think I'm going to have to tecommend to dh that we can all go the initial event and that if bm's sister and SS would like to attend additional events, she can rent a car and do it in her own (events will take place an hour away).

Is that appropriate? I'm. It going to sit at bm's family's homes and commiserate about the uncle. Dh can pay his respect as can SS and if bm's suster (and SS) want to spend additional time with faminy, then that's up to them.

Does that sound cool?

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