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Evil stepmonster's picture

I hurt DH's feelings last night.
I was doing some online Christmas shopping and came across a few things I thought SS7 would like. Now, after the great Christmas debacle of 2012 I normally don't buy for DH's kids, but I was on my ebates and figured it's just two things, why not, I get 5% cash back anyway.
So I ordered them. DH got pissed. I was a little bit confused. What was the problem?
He was mad that I hadn't gotten anything for dPPP.
"Really DH? You're mad that I knew SS7 would like these because he saw them on tv and said he really hopes Santa would get it for him so I got it. I don't know what dPPP likes so much. Plus I'm a little pissed at you right now because you're pissed about dPPP but not at all about the fact that I only got something for SS7 and not Redface Magee or Sir Tearsalot. All you were concerned with is your little princess."
He didn't respond, I also returned the items I picked out for SS7. Merry Christmas to all.

Evil stepmonster's picture

Oh no no, I've rarely ever mentioned SS7, I really like that one. lol
STA is the one who lives with Redface Magee, he has mental disorders. STA wants to come live with us because everything is all about Redface and not triggering his anger issues at his BM's house.
SS7 is the oldest with Inbred. He's not treated badly at all, his grandpa on his moms side dotes on him alot, makes sure he doesn't feel left out of the almost all girl house over there.
He's a good kid, and Santa has seen it. Redface has tried to hurt him a few times.

Evil stepmonster's picture

Some times I've really wanted to shower SS7 with attention and affection and comepletely ignore dPPP so that he sees what he looks like to his own children, and she sees how it feels when someone takes the attention away from you. Maybe one day. I'm sure I'll get a call bitching about how mean I was to the girl, and I'll just tell her, yeah but your son had a wonderful time.

Evil stepmonster's picture

lol, I get calls from Inbred saying how mean I am if I don't let her help decorate cookies.

Evil stepmonster's picture

dPPP is the daughter, the one who is constantly destroying my things, my kids things, her brothers things because she can. She a miniwife, but worse, if DH is talking to one of his sons she throws herself on the floor and begins to scream and cry. She picks up the broom or a bat or a stick from outside and will go after the boys because they don't want to play tea party or barbie with her. She's made my life a living hell in the last two years. She has it in her head that since she's the only girl, she can do what ever the hell she wants and get away with it.

Evil stepmonster's picture

When DH and I first got together we took his kids with us to a friends bbq, my friend pulled me to the side and told me "Evil, I have to tell you, that girl will be the death of you. Don't let that happen."
Her words echo in my ear alot.

AllySkoo's picture

Aw, poor SS7! I'm all for treating the kids equally, so I can see why you wouldn't get gifts for him if you're not getting them for the other kids (and they'll be there at the same time), but his father's clear favoritism is pulling on my heart strings. I'd certainly WANT to get him something, since he sounds like a nice kid and his dad is being an ass. Sad

Evil stepmonster's picture

Exactly..I know she won't go with out, none of his kids will. But it's very difficult buying gifts for someone you dislike with the firey passion of a thousand suns. Plus when shopping I usually go for what "speaks" to me. If I see it and think, hmmm so and so would like this I'll grab it, it's her own fault she's not in my thoughts.
I didn't mean that as bitchy as it sounded...

furkidsforme's picture

Meh, I openly treat middle SD better than the others. She's cool. She's laid back. She's intelligent and sees the comical farce that is the rest of her family for the dysfunction that it is. And she is treated like shit by everyone else and always forgotten or left out. So if I am the one person who goes overboard for her, so be it. I DARE anyone in the family to question me about it. None have, because they know I would give them a mouthful that OF COURSE the pleasant and respectful child who is deserving got MORE. It goes unspoken, but clearly understood.

Evil stepmonster's picture

I repurchased the gifts, didn't tell DH. He'll see the charge and ask but it'll be to late by then, they will wrapped and under the tree and SS7 will most likely already have seen them there. I also bought my dog(a girl) some frilly girly things to wear to keep warm during the winter, will be giving them to my furbaby for Christmas. Yes, that is a bitch move...I hope he gets that.